Husband spends too much time with Kristen Bell! Is he having an affair or not?

[claireyp612]

My husband often travels away a bit on business; usually it's just within the United Kingdom (where we're from) but it's very rarely that he'll travel to Europe. I'm 26, and he's the same age too.

 

Recently he's started getting flights to the United States fairly frequently; claiming it's work-related, and I've had no reason not to believe him.

 

Last week I got a phone call off my friend who said she'd seen pictures of him kissing and cuddling Kristen Bell in a free newspaper in the showbiz section(she's on holiday in Florida at the moment). My friend said the paper was asking "Who's Kristen Bell's new mystery man?"

 

She said the article had mentioned this mystery man was apparently a 26-year-old businessman with a middle-class background, and that he was "one you'd love to date, if you could".

 

I asked her to repeat it, and she said, yes, the man in the photo is definitely your husband. She said he's got that distinctive scarline on his neck that's small, but noticeable, and jet-black hair, so it is definitely my husband.

She emailed me a copy of the photo; and I was stunned to see him in it.

 

I've tried contacting my husband's mobile, but got no reply - couldn't leave a message.

 

How do I know if my husband is having an affair with Kristen, and if so, how do I cope with this?

 

I know some people will think this is probably a joke, but stranger things have happened ;, haven't they?

[claireyp612]

I just feel stressed about the whole thing, the not knowing if he is or isn't having an affair, and the press coverage of it.

 

I'm surprised that she doesn't know better than to be dating a married man (especially one from Greater Manchester at that).

[Citizen Erased]

Isn't she dating Dax Shepard?

 

Without seeing the photo I really couldn't tell.

 

You ask if it's true what do you do? I'd suggest a divorce. Or perhaps a divorce. Or maybe a divorce...you get the point...

[claireyp612]

Isn't she dating Dax Shepard?

 

Without seeing the photo I really couldn't tell.

 

You ask if it's true what do you do? I'd suggest a divorce. Or perhaps a divorce. Or maybe a divorce...you get the point...

 

From what I hear she's dating Dax.

However, it's impossible to get my husband's side of the story - he's being downright unresponsive concerning this

 

I would divorce him, but he's never cheated before now, or even shown any inclination/penchant for doing so, he's been so loyal to me. Our relationship's been a good one with the usual arguments any couple have... up until now, the flashpoint incident

 

I just hope our British press doesn't get wind of this (thankfully no-one at the Manchester Evening News has got hold of this) - it would be embarrassing and aggravating for me.

 

Claire

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[Adunaphel]

Hey... are you aware that anything that appears on LS posts can be googled, and you cannot delete your old posts or change your username?

You seem rightfully worried about people you know finding out, so I thought to remind you that by posting the celebrity's name and the name of the city you live in on here, you increase the chances that someone might know about it.

 

I am sorry about what is going on... are you 100% sure that it is your H the man who has been spotted with her?

 

What would you do if he had an affair with an average woman?

Affairs with a celebrity are still affairs. With the aggravation that they could be more embarassing for the betrayed spouse.

[claireyp612]

Hey... are you aware that anything that appears on LS posts can be googled, and you cannot delete your old posts or change your username?

You seem rightfully worried about people you know finding out, so I thought to remind you that by posting the celebrity's name and the name of the city you live in on here, you increase the chances that someone might know about it.

 

I am sorry about what is going on... are you 100% sure that it is your H the man who has been spotted with her?

 

What would you do if he had an affair with an average woman?

Affairs with a celebrity are still affairs. With the aggravation that they could be more embarassing for the betrayed spouse.

 

I am absolutely 100% sure it is my husband - positively.

 

As for if he had an affair with an average woman, I don't know what I'd do - as he's never cheated before, not whilst he's been with me or in any previous relationships.

 

I'm worried about the media furore that could come from this (hoping tabloids like the Manchester Evening News, Daily Star, Southport Visiter etc. don't get hold of it!)

 

Would you tell the press or not about it?? (not that I would, but I fear someone will anyway).

[Adunaphel]

 

Would you tell the press or not about it?? (not that I would, but I fear someone will anyway).

 

I would tell an attorney... and ask him what are your legal options in case the story comes out on local tabloids.

[MindoverMatter]

I am calling troll.

 

1. Too many personal information that have nothing whatsoever to do with the story (e.g. the city you live in etc.)

2. Mentioning the names of the specific newspapers that you are supposedly afraid of, AFTER you've been warned that all of this could be googled.

 

...

 

Not buying any of it.

 

In case I am wrong: No, you don't know 100% if he has an affair. You only had a friend tell you she saw a picture in a yellow press magazine. Usually fotos there don't have a good quality. You haven't even seen it for yourself. Go talk to your husband about it, find out if there is any merit to it and if there is: divorce.

[claireyp612]

I am calling troll.

 

1. Too many personal information that have nothing whatsoever to do with the story (e.g. the city you live in etc.)

2. Mentioning the names of the specific newspapers that you are supposedly afraid of, AFTER you've been warned that all of this could be googled.

 

...

 

Not buying any of it.

 

In case I am wrong: No, you don't know 100% if he has an affair. You only had a friend tell you she saw a picture in a yellow press magazine. Usually fotos there don't have a good quality. You haven't even seen it for yourself. Go talk to your husband about it, find out if there is any merit to it and if there is: divorce.

 

I have seen the photos (albeit scanned ones!) and they were OK quality; what you'd see in a local tabloid!

 

This is genuine, and not trolling. Stop making unwarranted accusations.

 

I've tried to talk to my husband about it, but got no response from his mobile phone - so where do I go next?

 

Claire

[MindoverMatter]

You go talk to a lawyer about your options. You print the pictures and lay it out on the table. You wait for your husband to come home. You confront him.

You talk. Then you take it from there.

 

Stop posting private information and information that could be googled and disrupt the privacy of everyone involved. Why list the specific magazines you are afraid of?