kalani Posted September 23, 2003 Share Posted September 23, 2003 I have been having an afair with a woman for the past six months, I have known her for several years as friends. She split with her husband and I took her to dinner a couple of months later. We immediatly started having great sex and seeing each other once or twice a week. We have been to Las Vegas together and have had great fun and sex up until about a month ago. She went into a depressed state and because I am married wants to end the relationship. She admits she loves me and I love her but she wants to move on. I, of course do not. AT her request we stopped seeing each other, no more after work cocktails etc. Then I was gone on a trip for two weeks. When I returned we got together for drinks and discussed the whole thing all over again. She missed me and wanted to meet but not to continue the relationship. We spoke briefly over the weekend and have not talked since. I want to continue the relationship but don't know what to say or do at this point. So I am just not calling her or contacting her, hoping she might miss me again and call. By the way I am 60 and she is 30. But that doesn't bother either of us. Link to post Share on other sites
MarieW Posted September 23, 2003 Share Posted September 23, 2003 I'm sure you must be a very attractive and agile 60 year old to have attracted a woman of 30 - but why are you trying to continue this affair when you are married? Don't you owe it to your wife to work things out ( I'm presuming there are problems otherwise you wouldn't be cheating on her ) I am 31 and I could never be attracted to a man of 60, never mind how attractive, courteous he may be, it's just too big an age gap. You've had some fun with this lady and now she doesn't want to know. Seriously, can you blame her. Look at the age difference here....30 years!!! that on top of the fact that you are married. No self respecting woman would knowingly get involved with a married man so much older than her. You are asking for advice. All I can say is forget this young poppet and concentrate on what is wrong with your marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
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