clv0116 Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 I was merely providing reasoning behind her statement .... None of that is relevant to the issue she raised. don't you think you should worry more about your swimmers than your partner's eggs? See that? This is the issue she raised. Given the information in this thread it would be clear to anyone who can play 2 steps ahead that the thing she is suggesting I 'worry' about is out of my control at this point in time. What sort of dingaling spends time fretting over things that can't be changed? Moron was a little strong but it's pretty clear that very little thought went into the whole problem->solution process for both of you. There is other information available (I think) here in other threads that would explain more fully my lack of concern. When I got my vasectomy in my mid-20s I put a bunch of little soldiers in cold storage for future emergencies. But I wouldn't expect anyone to have put those facts together on their own since it's sort of out of band. Link to post Share on other sites
Adamagnet Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 What sort of dingaling spends time fretting over things that can't be changed? Good point, some will always be pricks. Link to post Share on other sites
clv0116 Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 Good point, some will always be pricks. I don't know why I still get upset, it's patently obvious that for every person like me at the high end of the IQ spectrum there must be many that live lower on the curve. Sometimes I just get tired of having to work everything out step by step for others. Sorry. I'll try to be more understanding in future. Link to post Share on other sites
birdie Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 I don't care if you call me a moron you old wrinkly thing. Clearly I hit a nerve there by the way. You both sounds extremely repulsive human beings to me. I don't care how superior you consider yourself to be (isn't that how the nazis started, with the breeding programme and all that?) you are a knob Link to post Share on other sites
clv0116 Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 Clearly I hit a nerve there by the way. Yes, as I said I tend to get impatient with constantly having to baby-step some others along the thought-path I traversed in milliseconds. Maybe you can shed some light on what your goal was in suggesting I 'worry about my swimmers'? What use would that serve? Please explain how YOUR advice is in any way useful to my scenario. Link to post Share on other sites
birdie Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 Yes, as I said I tend to get impatient with constantly having to baby-step some others along the thought-path I traversed in milliseconds. Maybe you can shed some light on what your goal was in suggesting I 'worry about my swimmers'? What use would that serve? Please explain how YOUR advice is in any way useful to my scenario. advice? I don't want to give you advice. I merely pointed out what is obvious. that you are a dirty old man Link to post Share on other sites
clv0116 Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 advice? I don't want to give you advice Really? Because this (see below) looks a lot like advice to me: don't you think you should worry more about your swimmers than your partner's eggs? So this wasn't advice? It looks like advice. If you were angry because it's easily possible for a man in his 40s to date younger women well I don't know what to tell you. That's just life and you can hate it all you want, nothing will change it. Maybe this fact is hitting a raw nerve in you? Have you been passed over a lot in the dating world lately? Link to post Share on other sites
Author CandyGirlXO Posted February 4, 2009 Author Share Posted February 4, 2009 Hmmm to say that a 26 year old is getting too old, that you need to start worrying about children is ridiculous! A woman can have healthy babies well into her late 30's. I am 26, and it doesn't concern me at all that I don't have children. If I met the right one, I don't think I would be too old. Plus there is always adoption as an option. But seriously 26.... still young. Link to post Share on other sites
clv0116 Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 Hmmm to say that a 26 year old is getting too old, that you need to start worrying about children is ridiculous! A woman can have healthy babies well into her late 30's. I am 26, and it doesn't concern me at all that I don't have children. If I met the right one, I don't think I would be too old. Plus there is always adoption as an option. But seriously 26.... still young. Yeah you're right of course but there are a few things to consider. First I know it's horrible and shallow and terrible but I've been with more than one single mom. The older they are when they have kids the more torn up their body is. Some of the women I've dated who had kids in their teens and early 20s snapped right back into shape. Second if you figure we date until shes 27, then get married, then spend 3 years running around enjoying being a couple, she's 30. Start trying for kids and by the time we have 2-3 she will be in her mid to late 30s. Finally adoption isn't something I'm interested in unless I had at least one of my own. I really do care for this girl though. She's really special. Link to post Share on other sites
iceis44 Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 Yeah you're right of course but there are a few things to consider. First I know it's horrible and shallow and terrible but I've been with more than one single mom. The older they are when they have kids the more torn up their body is. Some of the women I've dated who had kids in their teens and early 20s snapped right back into shape. Second if you figure we date until shes 27, then get married, then spend 3 years running around enjoying being a couple, she's 30. Start trying for kids and by the time we have 2-3 she will be in her mid to late 30s. Finally adoption isn't something I'm interested in unless I had at least one of my own. I really do care for this girl though. She's really special. Which means hes pushing late 40s, is probabaly his concern Link to post Share on other sites
iceis44 Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 None of that is relevant to the issue she raised. See that? This is the issue she raised. Given the information in this thread it would be clear to anyone who can play 2 steps ahead that the thing she is suggesting I 'worry' about is out of my control at this point in time. What sort of dingaling spends time fretting over things that can't be changed? Moron was a little strong but it's pretty clear that very little thought went into the whole problem->solution process for both of you. There is other information available (I think) here in other threads that would explain more fully my lack of concern. When I got my vasectomy in my mid-20s I put a bunch of little soldiers in cold storage for future emergencies. But I wouldn't expect anyone to have put those facts together on their own since it's sort of out of band. oops my bad, you gots an ice tray in the freez Link to post Share on other sites
iceis44 Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 19, holy hell that is just one year short of statutory rape man, As I stated I believe, most 20/40 fantasies are clearly not what they are cracked up to be on tv, 20/40= 30/50= 40/60= yep she will be changing your diapers also Link to post Share on other sites
BoredPerson Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 Looking at the thread about why men date some women and settle down with others, it was brought up that men want to settle down with a woman who cooks. How true is this? Would you date a girl that did not cook and had little interest to learn? Is that really a deal breaker for most men? If so then I am screwed! Ok cooking and fellatio skills are a bonus you don't need to cook but obviously if there are two women one has an a+ in fellatio and cooking she is gonna get the most men wanting to marry her. If you are just out for yourself it is worse because you need something to offer. Get it ? Link to post Share on other sites
clv0116 Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 19, holy hell that is just one year short of statutory rape man, In some states, not in others and not in places like Canada which actually have a federal law. But in the end that just deserves a big 'so what?' since it's like getting your knickers twisted over someone driving 54mph in a 55. 20/40= 30/50= 40/60= yep she will be changing your diapers also That's just dumb. Dad is 70 and splits firewood every weekend, grandpa died at 90 with his boxers firmly in place. That's not teen spirit I'm smelling here, smells more like sour grapes. Link to post Share on other sites
clv0116 Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 Which means hes pushing late 40s, is probabaly his concern You're quoting me and talking to ...? Me? Who is 'he'? Link to post Share on other sites
iceis44 Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 . That's not teen spirit I'm smelling here, smells more like sour grapes. You are to funny, I dont care one dip about what you do with your life, naa sour grapes, not a bit Make a plan baby, make a plan, someone will throw a wrench in it, for sure. Your attitude is not that of a man in is early/(lets go with) mid 40's more like 23 dating 3, 20somethings at once, cause of the (oldest one) that wants a stay at home caretaker jmo Run out and play now Skippy Link to post Share on other sites
iceis44 Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 In some states, not in others and not in places like Canada which actually have a federal law. But in the end that just deserves a big 'so what?' since it's like getting your knickers twisted over someone driving 54mph in a 55./quote] If your equate a man in is 40s sleeping with a 19 year old, to driving 1 mile over the speed limit, you are showing your age quite clearly Link to post Share on other sites
iceis44 Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 When I got my vasectomy in my mid-20s I put a bunch of little soldiers in cold storage for future emergencies. Hummm how much does it cost to store, sperm cubes for 20ish years, just curious. Link to post Share on other sites
clv0116 Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 On topic, none of the girls I'm dating are what I'd call gourmet cooks but they can cook and they enjoy cooking for family. All of them were taught to care for a house as part of their upbringing and all of them expect their man to provide for them to the best of his ability. In return they expect to care for the family home to the best of their ability. Obviously if something happens then one partner has to assist the other but the division of responsibility is pretty traditional. Your attitude is not that of a man in is early/(lets go with) mid 40's Well it's my attitude and I'm in my early 40s, so by definition it is in fact the attitude of a man in his early 40s. If your equate a man in is 40s sleeping with a 19 year old, to driving 1 mile over the speed limit, you are showing your age quite clearly Try to keep up sugar lump, it was 1 mile under the speed limit which makes it more than legal. Both are completely legal, which is the point since you brought up a point of law. Hummm how much does it cost to store, sperm cubes for 20ish years, just curious. Well expensive is relative. I'm able to afford it easily and it's worth it to me so don't you worry about my finances. Link to post Share on other sites
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