So ****ing pissed - need to vent

[Kelso]

Hey ... I'm just so ****ing pissed right now and I really need to vent...

 

1. I hate to come home and seeing the garbage bin full and nobody cares to take out the garbage.

 

2. I hate that my sister is dating a guy who lives in another country, that is 4000 miles away and she is falling in love and I know that there is 0,5% chance it might work out - and she's gonna get heart broken once again.

 

3. I hate to come home and having to listen to ****ing latin american music, that my sister likes so much these days because of this guy, and she won't turn it off.

 

4. I hate that my oldest friend never calls and doesn't give a **** about anything but his family ... and gets pissed when I inform him that I can't make it to his son's christening because of work.

 

5. I hate that this same friend makes no effort to involve his girlfriend (and mother of both his kids) with the life that he had before they met. They simply watch TV, eat ice cream and gain weight ... every night.

 

6. I hate that I met a perfect girl last summer and I can't do anything about it today.

 

7. I hate when people ask for my professional opinion on matters, and don't follow my suggestions...and then come nagging when I turned out to be right.

 

8. I hate how disgustingly immature my group of friends at Uni are sometimes.

 

9. I hate when my friend complains about his poor grades when he watches sitcoms on his laptop and earplugs during lessons

 

10. I hate going out weekends and not being able to flirt with chicks because I am so ridiculously in love with a girl that I can't do anything about.

 

11. I hate coming home and having to vacuum my sofa to get rid of popcorn because my sister was babysitting our nephew (5yo) on Friday (3 days ago!!!).

 

12. I hate how my friend is cheating on his girlfriend. She is such a sweetheart and doesn't suspect anything.

 

13. I hate that another friend of mine can't life without being in a relationship.

 

14. I hate how lazy I am becoming.

 

15. I am so afraid that I'm going to be lonely in the city where I'm moving too. I have so many great memories from that city, but it is going to be lot different this time, and the thought of loneliness scares me.

 

That should do it for now!

[kizik]

First of all, you are far too concerned with what other people do. For some reason you have cast yourself as judge, jury and executioner of all your family and friends. Perhaps it's only that you are worried about your friends, as it sounds like you are - but at the same time you mock them for their poor choices. People have to make their own mistakes and learn lessons on their own. Nothing you tell someone will help sometimes.

 

Besides that, you come across as incredibly ungrateful for what you do have.

 

 

8. I hate how disgustingly immature my group of friends at Uni are sometimes.

 

10. I hate going out weekends and not being able to flirt with chicks because I am so ridiculously in love with a girl that I can't do anything about.

 

 

You have friends. You should either stop hanging out with them because you don't like them, or learn to appreciate them for who they are. Don't disrespect them by thinking they're lame and still chilling with them.

 

If you are hung up on some girl, either do something about it, or move on. You can't flirt with chicks because you are so in love with some girl? Dude, you can do whatever the hell you want. All you really have to do is stop whining and appreciate what you have.