amyg339 Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 This is the story between me and my boyfreind.... i hope some of you have some good help suggestions because we are seriously on the rocks... well here it goes wev'e only been together about a year but from about 6 months its been getting worse and worse. About a month into the relationship i kissed another a guy but it all got twisted into an overblown game of chinease whispers between all freinds of ours and he thins that more went on. From this day we argue every day, i go to college and hes constantly asking me who im with what im doing etc. i dont go out anywhere without him as it saves arguments. he is currently jobless which really winds me up as he doesnt really help himself to find one. all my freinds go out clubbing and having a good time but as he hasnt got a job he has no money so we have to stay in. i have a bebo and a facebook he constanly checks the changes on them to see if i have any new male freinds on there an he goes mad if i do. he goes through my fone wheneva i go out the room to see who iv been texting and if there is a nukmber with no name he not only queeries it he puts the number in there phone to see who it is. i often think it os my fault as this happend in my last relationship. but i dont know whats going wrong. he drives and i dont so whenever we argue he goes out with our mates as we share the same and im left at hoe on my own bored. please omebody give me advice i feel trapped. Amy Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 Then either get counselling, or get out. Look at 6 months down the line. This is going to get worse, not better. If you don't like the current arrangement, move on. See where that takes you. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 please omebody give me advice i feel trapped. Sorry, but you gave him a reason not to trust you. I wouldn't have stayed with you if I were him. Better to leave than to have to play warden. If you feel trapped, then break up with him. You don't need a boyfriend, especially if you can't be true to them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author amyg339 Posted January 21, 2009 Author Share Posted January 21, 2009 ty for your suggestion maybee it is time to get out Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 Jeesh, you've been living like this for 6 months now. In the space of an hour, you have had two posts in reply to your question. And now you think it may be 'time to get out'? ONE: How could you not have seen this for yourself? TWO: What took you so long? THREE: Don't leave it another 6 months before acting, will you? Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 ty for your suggestion maybee it is time to get out I'd say so. Start anew. and if you find someone you care about, try to keep from kissin' other guys;) Link to post Share on other sites
Author amyg339 Posted January 21, 2009 Author Share Posted January 21, 2009 in previous relationship i have been cheated on and i think i done it because i dont think any lad can keep it in his pants. i know this is no justification but i dont no y i did it. he went back to his mums about half an hour ago as i told him to leave an her and his sister have done nothin but txt me :S Link to post Share on other sites
Author amyg339 Posted January 21, 2009 Author Share Posted January 21, 2009 ONE: How could you not have seen this for yourself? TWO: What took you so long? THREE: Don't leave it another 6 months before acting, will you? ONE: Like they say love is blind TWO: i dont like being on my own THREE: I cant let go x Link to post Share on other sites
mr.dream merchant Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 Break up with him and be single for a bit, mingle around with guys no strings attached. It doesn't seem like you're ready to settle down yet. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 in previous relationship i have been cheated on and i think i done it because i dont think any lad can keep it in his pants. I can keep it in my pants just fine when in a relationship with someone. I'm still trying to find that elusive woman that can't keep from spreadin' em so easily however:mad: Link to post Share on other sites
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