Derek1740 Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 My situation is as follows, I was with my ex-fiancee for a little over a year. I did everything for her, gave her my all 110%, invested so much time, money, effort, and mental energy. She always told me that I was the only one she wanted and that I was the most amazing man she'd ever met. I was always good to her, I was always there for her when she needed somebody, and I always listened to her. I loved her so much that I would have given my own life for her. So why after all that, and all she said, would she start be really mean to me, neglecting me, being really selfish, and in the end cheating on me. When I found out she cheated on me she lied about it and, tried to put all the blame on me. Now she is with the man she cheated on me with and, she lives with him in the apartment complex where I work. So while I was working she was cheating right under my nose you could say. She is barely 18, and the man she left me for who is almost thirty; is pure scum, he drinks all the time, does drugs, and what I heard from his ex who used to work where I work now, is that he is abusive. This is so strange to me being an Iraq-era vet with good morlas and values. I would never take advantage of a woman, and I would never be abusive either. I don't do drugs or drink consistently and, I go to church. My question is why would she leave me and a relationship that she knew was real for a total stranger. It just makes no sense, can someone please give me some answers? P.S. She also goes and tells my employees lies about me at my work like I'm gay and that is why I don't have any interest in women anymore. I have also heard from one of her friends that she had been telling alot of people all of my deepest darkest secrets to everyone to try and ruin me. When she found out she cheated on of course I was going to tell people about it when they asked why we were no longer together, but I would never tell anyone the secrets she entrusted me with as it just goes against my code. Link to post Share on other sites
lkjh Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 Dude, the girl sucks. stop being so nice. If people ask why you two split up; tell them because she cheated on me with a 30 year old junkie. Some girls like being treated badly and they walk all over nice guys Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 Dude, the girl sucks. stop being so nice. If people ask why you two split up; tell them because she cheated on me with a 30 year old junkie. Some girls like being treated badly and they walk all over nice guys Exactly. Most women who bully like that were usually abused as children - in unfortunate ways. As far as rumors? Let your life speak for itself. Be happy with your current girlfriend, make her happy and enjoy your life Link to post Share on other sites
hunkahunkaburninlove Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 She is a skank, who likes the bad boys. find her in twenty years and you will find a fat toothless (meth) skank who looks 50. Find a girl who likes nice guys. Link to post Share on other sites
lkjh Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 She is a skank, who likes the bad boys. find her in twenty years and you will find a fat toothless (meth) skank who looks 50. Find a girl who likes nice guys. Very true! Link to post Share on other sites
shunter Posted January 24, 2009 Share Posted January 24, 2009 She is a world class loser. You need to build some backbone and go out and bang some other girls. I am sorry but you sound like a wuss. You sound like the guy who will try and date a new girl and tell her about his ex-GF problems. She did you a favor buddy. Thank God each night that she has left you and made it so easy. You got lucky ! Now go find yourself a couple of girlfriends and have some fun Link to post Share on other sites
Author Derek1740 Posted January 24, 2009 Author Share Posted January 24, 2009 I have finally realized that she is just a skank and I don't care what she does anymore. I can get better anyway, right now I'm just focusing on getting my career goal to become a law enforcement officer in order. Thanks for all the help guys. I just needed a second opinion on this! Link to post Share on other sites
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