Poncho Posted January 25, 2009 Share Posted January 25, 2009 I met this girl at the bar a couple of nights ago, we danced, talked and had a good time. She invited me to an after hours party, so I went with for a bit. Spent about an hour at the party and started to get really tired, and told her I was gonna head home. She wanted me to stay but it was 2:30 a.m. and I had been up since 6 a.m. I told her I would love to stay, but needed to go to bed. I asked if I could call her sometime, she said yes and gave me her number. I called her up today and got her a voicemail. I left her a message seeing if she wanted to go graba bite to eat or a couple of drinks. Just wondering how long I should wait for a response before writing her off. It's only been a few hours since I called. I am new to the dating scene after my divorce and don't remember any of this stuff. Thanks in advance. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Poncho Posted January 25, 2009 Author Share Posted January 25, 2009 Also, it had been snowing the night we met. When I got home she texted me asking if I got home ok. In my opinion, it seemed she was interested. What do you guys think? Link to post Share on other sites
citizen67 Posted January 25, 2009 Share Posted January 25, 2009 She was definitly interested. You called, it was a real # you left a message, now just wait and see. She doesnt want to seem over anxious either Link to post Share on other sites
Author Poncho Posted January 25, 2009 Author Share Posted January 25, 2009 Thanks for the info. I'm new to the dating game since March after being out for 5 1/2 years. Trying to get back into it. Just don't remember all the details, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Poncho Posted February 5, 2009 Author Share Posted February 5, 2009 So, a little update. We've been texting a little back and forth and talking on the phone. When we talk on the phone it lasts for at least a half hour. She keeps putting me off for a date wich is really irritating the hell outta me. I work at a bar two nights a week for a part time job. She texted me to see how work was going. I told her it was slow and boring, and she responds "well maybe someone cool will walk through the door later". Low and behold, about an hour later she comes strolling in. She had a friend with her, not a big deal. They stayed there for about two hours bs'ing with me. When they were leaving she gave me a big hug. I invited her to dinner and a concert this sunday night. She said sounds like fun and she would go, just remind her tomorrow (today). She texted me today a couple times to see how my day job was going and how I was doing and stuff like that, she said she had a good time last night. I reminded her about the concert, then she said she didn't know if she was gonna go. I told her it would be fun, and got no response after that. What in the hell is going on with this girl. This is the 2nd or 3rd time she said she would go on a date, but then changed her mind. I'm about to just lose her damn number. Link to post Share on other sites
doomed Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 Immediate question that formed in my mind: Blowing you off but still showing interest = she got a bf or H already ? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Poncho Posted February 5, 2009 Author Share Posted February 5, 2009 Immediate question that formed in my mind: Blowing you off but still showing interest = she got a bf or H already ? As far as I can tell she doesn't, but, I don't know. Link to post Share on other sites
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