misteink Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 I will give a little background information first. My (ex) girlfriend and I had been together for almost 4 years. We met each other in high school through her sister. We hung out with each other because of mutual friends. She was very mature for her age mind you. We didn't start to get physical for a few years. We started dating and I can't really call it dating, moreso in a relationship because we were together 24/7 hanging out. Then we decided to move away to college together and the house that we lived in last year didn't work out. We decided to move into an apartment together. Within the last 4 months I developed severe asthma and allergies and have been in the hospital 4 times and the ICU. My ex hardly every came to see me and even when she did we would just fight. I have been on heavy steroids (prednisone) and at first it made me feel really crappy and made me lose my temper a lot more frequently. I would never be violent or anything of that nature just scream and cuss for no apparent reason. She then started hanging out with this girl Jillian. They were hanging out everyday all of the time. the other day I came home and they didn't realize that I saw them in the parking lot and they took off like I didn't see them. The other day she tells me it's over and that it's not me it's her. If any one realized how much I care for this girl I thought we would spend the rest of our life together. then one night she comes home at 4 in the morning and I look at her phone and she was talking to a guy I know all night. I asked her about it and she said hes just a friend. Now all of a sudden she tells me they've kissed and on top of that I picked her up the other day from his house that I didn't even know was his at the time. She makes me cry and my heart is broken. This is the first long relationship I've been in. I never knew that living with someone would drive them apart. I just don't see how she could cheat especially with everything I've been going through. My health hasn't been the best and she hasn't been doing the best in school either and she keeps making the same decisions. Any advice I could get on how to get over it without being mean, or hooking up with anyone else. I also live with her still in the same apartment until the lease is up. She says we may some day get back together but how can I ever trust her again? I don't deserve that but want to know why she would do that. Link to post Share on other sites
hunkahunkaburninlove Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 You know she is cheating. You need to confront her and kick her out. You cannot love her back into the relationship. Draw a line in the sand and make her choose. Link to post Share on other sites
hunkahunkaburninlove Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 She actually used you as a chauffer, to pick her up after she screwed this guy? That is cold. Dump her Link to post Share on other sites
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