OtherSide Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 Well, I've been confused for a while. There is this really nice girl at our school. I'll say that she is an aquaintance of mine just cause we text and talk almost everyday, but really don't do much else. Well, recently, this boy took a strong liking to the girl (wow, i'm surprised i used such nice wording) and asked her out. The first time he asked her out, she politely turned him down (she is a nice girl after all). Then he had a hissy fit/emotional meltdown/crying fit, or a combination of the 3. Next time he came around and asked her out, she said yes, while he seemed to flirt no more or come across better. Are all extremely nice girls like this, or is this a rare occasion? (Not that I would used this to my advantage;)) Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 Well, I've been confused for a while. There is this really nice girl at our school. I'll say that she is an aquaintance of mine just cause we text and talk almost everyday, but really don't do much else. Well, recently, this boy took a strong liking to the girl (wow, i'm surprised i used such nice wording) and asked her out. The first time he asked her out, she politely turned him down (she is a nice girl after all). Then he had a hissy fit/emotional meltdown/crying fit, or a combination of the 3. Next time he came around and asked her out, she said yes, while he seemed to flirt no more or come across better. Are all extremely nice girls like this, or is this a rare occasion? (Not that I would used this to my advantage;)) I don't know? You're focusing on one exchange between this guy and the nice girl. Nice girls are nice. They're cheerful, pleasant and have good hearts - a girl can't fake being nice for so long, eventually her true side will come through - so, genuinely nice girls are definitely apprecaited. Link to post Share on other sites
confused_2008 Posted January 27, 2009 Share Posted January 27, 2009 It almost seems like she said yes out of pity for the guy. I would think the hissy fit would have hurt his chances of ever getting a date with her. I wouldn't count on this as a strategy, OP. Link to post Share on other sites
10-4 Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 Problem with this is that she's getting the bad end of the deal. She's accepted a guy who acts like a child and if he did that initially, he aint gonna change. This is a flaw that women should avoid. Being "nice" in this sense just hurts you. My mom pulled that crap and ruined her whole life with an idiot. Link to post Share on other sites
Mag-Lone-Freak Posted January 29, 2009 Share Posted January 29, 2009 yeah...maybe in my teenage years I would have gone out on a date with him, but today I wouldn't waste my time with someone I'm not into, especially if he acted that way... Lately I've fallen into a trap with a few men where I'd be sitting alone at a cafe and they'd approach my table asking if they can sit with me and I'd say "sure":p Then they'd talk and talk... Thats it though, when they'd ask what I'm doing later, I'd lie and say I'm meeting a friend or have plans with "my boyfriend". One has also tricked me in the past by claiming he just wanted to show me some cool keyboards at a store (knowing I'm a pianist), he ended up taking me to dinner and a movie:p I never got back to him after...I'm careful now. Link to post Share on other sites
Mag-Lone-Freak Posted January 29, 2009 Share Posted January 29, 2009 it also depends on how decent he is to me. There are men I wouldn't have gone to dinner and a movie with after he's shown me some cool keyboards... Link to post Share on other sites
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