datura_noir Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Since the affair my husband had over a year and a half ago, we have had such an incredible and sensual intimate life. We talk more, and we explore more than ever.:bunny: I hate to say, but I feel like his little affair was a jolt of adrenaline into our relationship...we even got married and have had such a wonderful time since!! The downside is that we have since fallen out with his (former) best friend of 10+ years, whose sister was the OW. I feel sadness at times because this friend was there before I came into the picture, but this friend is also very self-centered and has financially ripped off many mutual friends financially(we found this out after all of this drama went down)... Anyway, he did drop the OW like a hot coal even though she was a very nice person going through a very hard time in her life; but the fact that he did that really hit home with me....I finally realized how much he loves me. It took that action for me to see that. And yes, I would have done the same for him. A toast to a great future!!!!!:)
imagine Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 So were you two unmarried at the time of affair?
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