Woggle Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 I will not be attending but my ex is getting remarried to a guy who is a junkie just like her. They go and do drugs together which makes them think they are soulmates. We have some mutual friends and she wants me to come because supposedly she has gotten over the divorce and wants to bury the hatchet with me and my wife. If I didn't fear for my safety I might have thought about going. It would be interesting to attend a junkie wedding. Maybe a few years from new they can have a crack baby. I'm just joking about that but I know already this marriage will be a trainwreck. Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 I will not be attending but my ex is getting remarried to a guy who is a junkie just like her. They go and do drugs together which makes them think they are soulmates. We have some mutual friends and she wants me to come because supposedly she has gotten over the divorce and wants to bury the hatchet with me and my wife. If I didn't fear for my safety I might have thought about going. It would be interesting to attend a junkie wedding. Maybe a few years from new they can have a crack baby. I'm just joking about that but I know already this marriage will be a trainwreck. Wow, I can't believe she invited you. That takes some gall. (And I shuddered a little at reading "wants to bury the hatchet".) Are you in touch with her? How'd she even send you an invite? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Yeah I was just thinking the same thing. She has some pretty big balls to invite you and your wife to her wedding. My question to you is, WHY are your mutual friends telling you stuff about her? They shouldn't be discussing ANYTHING to you when it comes to her. Even if you didn't fear for your safety, you shouldn't go because you and the ex are not friends at all. And, seeing how awful your marriage was while you were married to her, there's another reason to completely get her out of your life. Wog, tell your buddies to stop giving you details about her life. WHO cares if she is doing drugs. Sorry for asking but the mutual friends you two share - What type of people are they? If she is druggie and it's going to be a junkie wedding, that also means the types of people she hangs out with are just as shady as she is.. How close are you with the mutual friends? Does your wife like them? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted February 2, 2009 Author Share Posted February 2, 2009 We both have friends from back in the day that we have known for a long time and I won't force them to take sides. In no way do they condone her actions but they have known her since childhood and won't just drop her and I respect that. I don't mind being around sketchy people because I am very much not a junkie and will not be pulled into their life but given her recent history who knows what she will do. She thinks it is sad that my wife and her got off on the wrong foot and she feels they could be friends so that shows that she still has more than a few screws loose. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 I don't see anything wrong.. 'EX' doesn't necessarily mean 'enemy'... I'm sure that if my exes would invite me to their wedding (of course if their W want) I would surely go.. Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 I don't see anything wrong.. 'EX' doesn't necessarily mean 'enemy'... Even the one that shot at you? I'm sure that if my exes would invite me to their wedding (of course if their W want) I would surely go.. Even the ones that shot at you? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 oops, deleted my post as I read his post wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 oops, deleted my post as I read his post wrong. Did you think he was saying his wife still had a few screws loose, too? I had to re-read it carefully and track the pronoun-antecedent relationships to reassure myself... Link to post Share on other sites
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