ptp96 Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 So I met a girl at a party this weekend, she was clearly into me. We danced a little bit and I got her number before she left. Yesterday we texted for a few hours which was pretty cool but I'm concerned about how the end of the conversation went. This isn't the whole conversation, just the part that will put things into context. Her: I think I may have seen you at the basketball game yesterday Me: Oh yeah? I was sitting like right behind the band Her: Lol I was literally like 1 row behind you Me: Haha my bad I guess I don't really check to see who is behind me Her: Its ok I can forgive you besides you may not recognize me sober Me: No of course I'd recognize you I was sober when you showed up Her: What about when I left Me: Well I was in singing mode so I was definitely feeling it but I wasn't too bad till after you left Her: Oh the joys of drinking. So are you good at singing? Me: Well you heard me right Her: Haha I don't have a very good memory of it a drank an awful lot Me: Ok. Yeah I'm decent Her: It's unfortunate I don't remember that. I love it when people can sing Me: Yeah you missed out. Guess that means we have to hang out again so you can hear me sing Her: Lol is that what it means? Me: Yep sure does Her: Hmm can't argue with that logic Me: It's flawless That's the end of the conversation. It's been a day and she hasn't texted back and I'm concerned by that lukewarm response. Did I mess up by suggesting we should hang out again on the first text conversation? I certainly didn't mean we should date, just that we should meet again in a social situation. Now I'm thinking that I may have come across as too needy. I'd also like to add that I have a tendency of screwing things up so I'm real paranoid. Thanks for reading and I'd love to hear everyone's thoughts. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 So, when you got her number and called her up to ask her out on a date, how did that go? The answer to your question is contained within the above Link to post Share on other sites
shineonu Posted February 12, 2009 Share Posted February 12, 2009 you didn't come off too needy IMO. it was pretty clever the way you said you guys had to hang out because she missed your singing. now you'll have an excuse to show off too Link to post Share on other sites
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