Fancy Posted September 29, 2003 Share Posted September 29, 2003 First of all, let me say this.........this book recommendation is not spam. I didn't write the book and don't know the person who did. This is just a personal recommendation; I'm not trying to sell anything. I've been reading a lot of the threads in this forum (and the other love/relationships forums here) and I see soooooo much emotional abuse taking place. It seems like every other topic is about a woman who is/was involved in a relationship where they're being treated like crap, being totally disrespected, ignored, neglected, etc. and they're wanting tips on how to maintain or recover the relationship. Women have come such a long way in society, yet time after time we're still being drawn into unhealthy relationships that only serve to damage our already low self esteem. Knowingly or not, we're repeating childhood patterns and trying to fill voids in our lives in a most unhealthy way. I'm about halfway through a book right now that's been such an eye-opener to me. Every few paragraphs I'm yelling out, "OMG, that's me! I do that exact same thing!!" Ladies, if you're in a relationship where you're being verbally, emotionally or physically abused or being mistreated or neglected in any way, please, please get this book! The title is The Emotionally Abused Woman by Beverly Engel. I ordered the book from amazon.com and I got it in paperback for about $10. This book is helping me tremendously and I think it can help many of you here. Link to post Share on other sites
lola Posted September 29, 2003 Share Posted September 29, 2003 Does it also have practical reccommendations for what to do if you have a verbally abusive ex partner who also interferes in your personal life, friends and ruins relationships for you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fancy Posted September 29, 2003 Author Share Posted September 29, 2003 Well, I haven't read the whole thing yet, but I think it would be helpful in your situation. It talks about identifying abusers, why we let them control us, how to set boundaries, reclaiming your emotions, taking a stand, and moving on. Link to post Share on other sites
Miffy Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 I have just read an excelent book called 'how to mend your broken heart' by Paul McKenna which has lots of practical tips as well as a good few chapters which explain why you feel emotional pain at the end of a relationship and how to get over it. If you are hurting, this book is for you! Again as above I did not write it, do not sell it, in fact my copy is from the library. I will not make any money from this recommend! I have read lots of books trying to get over it from self esteem to spiritual love - this book is by far the best! Link to post Share on other sites
Miffy Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 I have just read an excelent book called 'how to mend your broken heart' by Paul McKenna which has lots of practical tips as well as a good few chapters which explain why you feel emotional pain at the end of a relationship and how to get over it. If you are hurting, this book is for you! Again as above I did not write it, do not sell it, in fact my copy is from the library. I will not make any money from this recommend! I have read lots of books trying to get over the hurt from self esteem to spiritual love - this book is by far the best! Link to post Share on other sites
Just Visiting Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 Hey Fancy!! Great to see you back. I too would like to recommend a book. "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov. I recently purchased this book and already I can see where I have gone in relating with men. Once I had his attention, I gave up a lot of my time and interests to be with him. In no time, he is starting to look bored and uninterested. It is more about taking care of yourself first rather than him taking the reins. I have learned a lot so far. Link to post Share on other sites
Miffy Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 I will be looking that one up - thanks just visiting. Link to post Share on other sites
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