DarkShadowLegion Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 There this girl that I sit across from at lunch. She sits with 2 or 3 of her freinds and I sit with one if my freinds. I knew she might have liked me because she would glance at me every know and then. Yesterday she sat down by herself across from me and smiled at me but didn't say anything. Her freinds came and set down and my friend sat next to me I showed my friend a video she wanted me to download, and after she finished watching it I went back to listening to my touch. The girl siting across from me asked me did I have 50 cent, I checked my pockets and said no. She Checked her purse and while she was doing that I pulled out a dollar and gave it to her. I couldn't hear what she said cause i was listening to my music but I knew she asked did I want the change she already had sitting on the table I shuck my head no and her face just lit up. I paused my music for a sec and I heard her freind say "he's so sweet" and the girl sitting across from me smiled. Today I went to go buy an icey like I usally do but they where sold out so I bought a drink and some chips out the machine (don't know what this has to do with the topic but w/e). I went and set down where I usally do and she came and set down across from me but off to the side alittle. She looked at me and said hi and since I don't talk much I just waved and smiled. After 3rd period (that's when lunch is) I was walking from the modulers (our classes are n the same module, right across from each other). Into the building and I looked behind me and I saw her so I started to slow down. I usally listen to music when walking from class to class but I wanted to know her name. So when she got right next to me I siad hey and I asked her her name, she smiled and didn't hesitate to tell me, she asked me what my name was, I told her my name, and she did the thing where she looks at the ground while smiling and looks at me again. Then she said nice to meet you while smiling and I said it back and I wanted to say something else but I couldn't think of anything. I know she's into me I just want to know what are some good conversation starters, and since next weekend is valentines day and we have a 4 day weekend our last day of the week is thursday. Do u think she gets the hint I like her to and should I do some like get her something for valentines day. If there are any errors I'm typing from my ipod so sry. . Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 7, 2009 Author Share Posted February 7, 2009 Monday at school im going to try to catch her before she walks in the building so i can talk to her, find out what she likes and probably ask her for her number Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 8, 2009 Author Share Posted February 8, 2009 Can anyone help? Im thinking of saying something to her at lunch like "hey do you want to talk a little after lunch? I can walk you to your forth period," Should I say that or just catch her after class? Link to post Share on other sites
wuggle Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 One piece of advice, if you are interacting with someone you like, take the bloody earphones out of your ears so you can hear what she is saying. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 8, 2009 Author Share Posted February 8, 2009 I Will when i talk to her Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 Gosh I soooooo agree with this piece of advice! Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 8, 2009 Author Share Posted February 8, 2009 I wasn't expecting to talk to her that day and when I talk to her 2morrow I won't have them in Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 8, 2009 Author Share Posted February 8, 2009 What should I say to her? Should I go by my instinct and say what I was going to say? Link to post Share on other sites
wuggle Posted February 9, 2009 Share Posted February 9, 2009 Be yourself, always, be true to yourself. That way if it goes well you'll know she likes you for you, and if it goes bad it was never meant to be. Don't lie to make yourself seem more interesting, dont try to show off, dont be too shy though (chances are she's just as nervous as you), but most of all be yourself. good luck , if it works cool, if not , relax, there's lots of years left in a life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 10, 2009 Author Share Posted February 10, 2009 I talked to her after 3rd period and I walked her to her locker and to her class and we talked about what we both are into and the whole time while we where walking, when we both looked at each other she would smile alittle. At her locker she pulled out 2 big books and even though I was carrying a big book of my own, something told me to pick up her books so I did and she said "you don't have to" with a smile on her face and I said "I'll take one" and she said thank you. Then I walked her from her locker to class and I gave her her book and I asked her did she want my number and I gave it to her. I'm not hoping she calls. If she calls she calls and I know she might like me. If she doesn't call then it's not that bad and she can call anytime and I see her at school Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 10, 2009 Author Share Posted February 10, 2009 She text me and we continued our conversation from earlier. So I really can't tell if she really likes me can I? Or is her testing me a good sign Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted February 10, 2009 Share Posted February 10, 2009 This is tragic. Utterly, utterly desperately tragic. Here we have two young people, engaged in their studies (so patently not stupid) and they have no idea how to talk to one another..... I've said it before and I'll say it again. Technology may have taken extraordinary leaps and bounds to change the face of the way we communicate with one another but in many ways it has done us no favours. It has left many young people today woefully unprepared for many things, like face-to-face inter-action, verbal communication and effective connection. Young man - use your text facility as little as you can. Talk to her about the things that interest you, and find out what makes her tick. What she likes, doesn't like. Ask her 3 things that make her happy, 3 things that make her sad, 3 things that make her angry and 3 things that make her glad to be alive. Be natural, be yourself and give her something to enjoy. Someone who's actually willing to talk, instead of text. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 10, 2009 Author Share Posted February 10, 2009 I Know what her intrested are, Im going to talk to her tonight and ask her some of the things you suggested. We talked today at school but it was really short cause we both has something we had to do Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 11, 2009 Author Share Posted February 11, 2009 The only thing I don't like about txting a girl you like is that you can't tell the emotion in there voice Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 15, 2009 Author Share Posted February 15, 2009 We've been talking slot over the past week. Before I thought that she just someone that I fought looked good and I wanted to talk to her know I kinda like her. Over the phone I would ask her how her days was and we would talk about that and etc. I wasn't filling good the other day and she helped me out, and I got in an argument with my mom and she helped cailm me down. Yesterday( Valentines Day) I said happy valentines day and she said it back but I didn't tlk 2 her for long cuz she was getting rdy to go to sleep so I asked her how her day went and I said goodnite to her. I might not tlk to her tonight but I might 2morrow not sure yet. I'm thinking of ask her if she want to hangout next weekend but I'm still desiding. Link to post Share on other sites
cavi Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 just ask her out already, its pretty obvious she likes u. u got nothing to lose Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 What ! You didn't get her anything for Valentines ??? Man that was your moment , even a sweet card . ( Did I miss something ? ) You seem very sweet. This chick digs you LOTS . Now put the musica down when you are talking to her. Make yer move ! Try to kiss her soon. Chicks gauge you by your kiss ! Make it goooooooood Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 17, 2009 Author Share Posted February 17, 2009 Yea I know I'm jus wondering whats going to happen but I'm going to have to take that chance. I'm waiting for he right moment, and I'm hoping it happens soon but I will ask her if she wants to hang out sometime Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 17, 2009 Author Share Posted February 17, 2009 I'm having second thoughts cuz when Ever I tlk to her she doesn't really ask me things in return how do I get her to ask me some questions and what are some more good questionto ask her Link to post Share on other sites
wuggle Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Some advice from someone older and wiser. Seize the day. Simple. Stop waiting for the right moment, that is a cop out. You're young, scared and nervous, we all were (and still are sometimes). There usually isn't a right moment. If you like this girl, be as nice as you can to her and ask her out. No games, no waiting , just do it. If she turns you down you will still be able to look yourself in the mirror and say "well at least I tried" , there is nothing worse than looking back and wishing "if only...". Just get on with it . Link to post Share on other sites
ThatCali Girl Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Good luck ^^ Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 18, 2009 Author Share Posted February 18, 2009 I'm going to ask her if she wants to hangout and see a movie this weekend or next weekend so I can know if she truly likes me Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted February 20, 2009 Author Share Posted February 20, 2009 Well I texted her and we were talking so I brought it up and asked if she wanted to hangout sometime and the only thing she said was oh so I'm guessing that was a no. I was kinda of worries at first but she's not the only one I talk to so I'm jus going to move on thanks for your help anyway Link to post Share on other sites
kapchamp Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 Know how you feel man. There was a girl who I was head over heel for, and I asked her to my prom. She said she wanted to go, but had to cancel because of a funeral or something. I asked her if she wanted to hang out some other time, and she said sure. So, when I asked her out, she said---NO. Moral is, though, it is a billion times better to try and fail than just think about it. She used to be all I could think about. I would sweat like mad whenever I talked to her, and choked up. Now I see her every day and it doesn't bother me. I'm a little resentful and we don't talk because it is awkward, but I am a better man for it. So I couldn't tell from your post if you got rejected or not, but either way its better than just imagining. Dreaming about relationships for anything but a very short time will absolutely kill you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkShadowLegion Posted March 5, 2009 Author Share Posted March 5, 2009 Im Not Sure if her response was a reject but im not going to ask her again after i got the response i did, I Moved on already. And I Think My Friend (a girl) that i sit with a lunch got alittle jealous when i told her Link to post Share on other sites
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