Why Do Men Try To Go Out Of Their Way To Make Their Woman Jealous?

[poemsandpeaches]

I am so sick of this ****..

Just when things are going good they'll throuw a darn wrench in the mix to get your goat..

Must we play head games til we're old and grey?

SoMeone please help me here..

My guy is hurting me and I don't know if he knows it...

Jealousy sux...

 

I have to admit that I do know how to go into my ever famou "I don't give a damn" mode..

[jalexy]

sweets- well all do it, male and female.

this answer to your post is simple. tell him how he is hurting you.

[clia]

I really don't think that the vast majority of men intentionally do things to make us jealous. I think they just do their man thing, and then we choose to get jealous or hurt over it. (And then they are stunned that we are so hurt...arguments and bickering ensues...etc.)

 

Maybe we can give you better advice if you tell us what happened.

[Fancy]

Well, to be honest.........jealousy is more your problem than it is his. No one can "make" you feel jealous.

 

That being said, many people (both men and women) will purposely try to make their mate jealous. Why? Well, it could be a number of reasons but a few that come to mind are their own insecurity (wanting to see how much you care) and control. They think they have power over you if they bring out your jealousy. It's a case of insecurity breeding insecurity.