jack79 Posted September 30, 2003 Share Posted September 30, 2003 Hi guys big problem here , I am too romantic for my own good , I hardly go out with a women before I start getting romantic its like some switch inside me or smthing ..lol cant hold the romance its almost like , with my x gf she used to keep saying are u reading out if a book or something and I would be no ,just comes to me when I think about you . I think this is a major problem because I am having a hard time finding anyone who is like upto taking so much romance ..lol I am otherwise a very practical guy but when it comes to a girl I like I can keep talking to her for hours about her hair and eyes , I dint even realize this till my x brought it up ..then I was like yeah I see ur point ..but its very hard for me to love a girl and then not be overly romantic , Is this normal and does anone else face a similar problem ..i aint joking it is a problem because it ends up making me very vulnerable ..i mean I keep rattling on and on ..any idea how I can curb the romance a bit Do you girls think being too romantic is a problem? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
subtitled Posted September 30, 2003 Share Posted September 30, 2003 i sort of have that issue... in all areas of my life, i'm very practical and people often think i'm quite unemotional.... when i meet someone i like, a switch is flicked and enters: -overanalysis -many desires -overemotional sappy feelings -etc. etc. but i think it's pretty normal. I doubt i would spend hours telling someone how beautiful their eyes were, but i might come close It might be weird because you appear to love the other person in the relationship more than they're willing to acknowledge their love for you - which may be intimidating for them, but other than that, it sounds really sweet. Over romanticness can get a bit tiresome though.. Link to post Share on other sites
Kelebek Posted September 30, 2003 Share Posted September 30, 2003 You're right, it can be tiresome, but it just depends on the girl. I bet some girls would absolutely love that. You're a dream man for many girls. I am not very good at accepting compliments, so a man commenting on my "beautiful eyes, hair, lips" etc would have me squirming uncomfortably. Maybe once I was more familiar with them, closer to them, then I'd enjoy it, but not too heavy too soon. A little compliment here and there would do the trick at first, I don't know many girls who are into big romantic gestures these days. Over the top can sound insincere aswell, so be careful. Anyway, I hope you find a girl who thinks you're just as wonderful back Link to post Share on other sites
WambleMistyc Posted October 6, 2003 Share Posted October 6, 2003 Well, i got the same problem too, but i'm a girl...lol i'm soooo romantic and worse thing is that my b/f is not!, and it suxxxxxxxx!! don't feel bad though, i understand your situation...good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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