Buddy has this thing about him that gets all the girls...how does this work?

[Brady_to_Moss]

My buddy can walk around school and he just has this..idk look or vibe but he gets so many looks by girls. He is always a ladys man. Girls always chase him and they are beautiful women as well. Hes a lot shorter than me and has facial hair...that is really the only diffrence yet he gets all of these looks..he will walk by a girl and say turn around..i bet she is looking at me...i turn around and she does...i want to be like him in that sense.

[Nikki Sahagin]

Well it's impossible to say what that something is. Some people do seem more attractive; whether it's looks or personality or charm or I don't know...could be ANYTHING.

 

Also I would say as well it's hard to tell if people are interested, particularly women. I think a lot of women enjoy attention and being flirted with - without necessarily having an interest in the man in particular.

 

Also don't try to be like this man. You'll find what works for you is completely different.

[GoneButNotForgotten]

A lot of it also could be confidence. He doesn't look away when a girl looks at him does he? As odd as it sounds confidence is something almost all women are attracted to. You don't have to be a prick. But being able to hold your head up and appear calm and in control goes a long ways. It is amazing what a little confidence and relaxation can do to make you more attractive.

 

I look at it from this perspective. I know some guys who will go up and pretty much talk to and start a conversation with any girl they see. They don't care if they are shot down 100 times in that night. They will still come out with a few numbers. Other guys get so worked up and take that one shot on that one girl they watch and are so nervous that it shows. They get no numbers all night. Guess who feels better at the end of the night? The one that got rejected 100 times but got 3 or 4 numbers or the guy that only got rejected once but got nothing?

[flash582]

Confidence, confidence, confidence.

 

Also .... change your perspective. Don't want to have sex with a girl your talking to.

 

Not ... don't act like you don't want to have sex, frankly, acting is transparent and insults the person you are talking to. But genuinely quit thinking with your little head and focus on appreciating the person you're talking to.

 

Don't come on like a friend unless that's what you want to be.

 

You'll see your dates double in no time.