cavi Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 I went out with this girl for dinner. She is a few years older than me but i like her alot. We had good conversations but she asks me why i don't have a girlfriend. I couldn't think of anything to say and it was kinda embarrasing. I continued and asked her why she doesn't have a boyfriend. She said that she is kinda sick of guys, being in a relationship. But i think she still wants to chill. Am i getting friend zoned? Or is she just not interested? I am not too sure. I can't stop thinking about her tho Link to post Share on other sites
Author cavi Posted February 15, 2009 Author Share Posted February 15, 2009 can any1 help me out on this situation please? Link to post Share on other sites
doomed Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 Just be honest. Take her out again, and pay attention to her. Ferret out her interests, likes and dislikes. If you get a segue or a quiet moment, say something like, the other day you asked me why I didn't have a girl friend and I didn't have an answer. I still don't. I am dating and looking for a girl friend and I must say I think I like you. I think you're cool and like to spend time with you. Are you sure you're sick of guys ? And if so, what are you doing here with me ? <-- and SMILE so you're not pushy or threatening ... bat your eyelashes at her and make her laugh, but appreciate her honesty. If she's not interested you'll know. doomed Link to post Share on other sites
Author cavi Posted February 15, 2009 Author Share Posted February 15, 2009 thx for the advice doomed, i really appreciate it. Ok, so we both have a mutual friend, she has a boyfriend. She mentioned to her that I am really sweet and that all 4 of us should hang out and have dinner. Still confuses me tho about the reason why she doesnt have a boyfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
doomed Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 LOL. Who cares why she doesn't have a boyfriend ? Nobody but you, dude, and you'd be looking to replace him if she had one. Stay sweet but don't get too sticky. I crack me up. What I mean is sweet without needy is cool. Be interested in her and tell her so, just don't confess your undying love and tell her you want her babies. Just be cool, but make sure she knows you're interested. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cavi Posted February 18, 2009 Author Share Posted February 18, 2009 i dunno what to do...? she still shows signs that she likes me... what should i do? should i just pretend like i don't like her and act normally or flirt with her? Link to post Share on other sites
doomed Posted February 19, 2009 Share Posted February 19, 2009 Re-read my replies, please, starting with "Take her out again." doomed Link to post Share on other sites
Shnuggles Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 Relax. If its not suppose to happen then it wont. Just be your sweet self. Make her laugh if you can, joke around. I guess just be yourself but at the same time let her know you are interested in dating if that's what she would like. Things should fall into place. Send a funny text. Play some pool, walk in a park or mall. Bushwalk or go bowling as appose to sitting at some table chatting. Being on your feet will keep your blood flowing and your brain active allowing you to be more creative and 'fun'. Have a good time and smile. Also, try to do most of the questions and her most of the talking. I find this helps a lot. As I said, as long as she knows your interested then just have fun. Take it from there. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cavi Posted February 22, 2009 Author Share Posted February 22, 2009 thx for the advice shnuggles. Yes, maybe i'll do what u said. How can i ask her out again without sounding so awkward tho? Link to post Share on other sites
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