SpanksTheMonkey Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Also, call me crazy but I really do want this to work out. I think I can get him to admit that he was lying. If that is the case, do you guys think it can work. Please don't be biased and consider the fact that we've been together for over a year. I do love him. I loved him before the situation and after the situation. Everyone lies. Should I give him a second chance? NO NO and emmmmmmm let me think here NOOOOO! didn't you already give him a second chance? By my last count hes on his what 3rd chance and getting better at hiding it from you? Go ahead call me biased if you like but who cares 1 year 2 3 it just doesn't matter IMO.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author rach1122 Posted February 24, 2009 Author Share Posted February 24, 2009 I guess I must be pretty crazy and maybe in denial. I guess I'm suppose to assume the worst. I'll be willing to admit, it is really hard for me to just give up on all of this. I really want to be able to trust him and I want to try to make it work. I don't think it will be impossible, though I know it will be pretty tough. Thank you to everyone who has posted. Everyone thinks I should leave him!!! Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 YOU can't make it work. For it to work, both of you have to be in this relationship and be honest and not be flirting with other people. You are living up to your end, but your bf is NOT. You have all the proof you need, not only from the texts you found, but from the fact that he has now set his phone so outgoing texts are automatically deleted. Really, what does that tell you? That he's being honest, or that he's trying to hide what he's doing? So NOTHING you do will make this work, unless you allow yourself to be a doormat and let him do what he's doing so as not to cause any waves. Link to post Share on other sites
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