lostconfused Posted October 2, 2003 Share Posted October 2, 2003 well me and my gf of 6 months just broke up , actually not exaclty, but she 3 weeks ago she told me that she needs some time to think what she really wants and she is gonna gimme a response as soon as she decides, we are both 21. i actually love the girl but what shocked me is not the break up but the way it was, we spend a wonderful sunday together on her house laughing kissing and everything, it was wonderful , but in the next day she email me tellling me that she needs some time to think about our relationship and that she doesnt wanna be hypocrite to me! so i said ok as u wish , so i havent contacted her for almost two weeks, then i met with her roomate and she told me that she is still thinking about you and you are always important to her, and there is a very high chances of a getting back but the problem is that she is not sure if i want her back cause i have never contacted her since. well for me i respected what the girl wanted she told me she needed some time so i gave her the time she needed am i wrong? anyway last week was her b-day and she called me before and was asking me to come to her b-day by any means because i am special to her and... i said i might not come, and she was kinda sad about the decision. but i just wanted to surprise her, i ended up going to her b-day and she was extremely happy and excited to see me. and here it comes the confusing pasrt in her b-day we ended up making out like we never split up , i kept telling her that we are just friends why are we doing this? she told me she cant help herself she was very excited to see me aand the only way she wanna express that is by hugging me and kissing, we really were like we never split up anyway i kept asking her what she really wants, and she told me the same thing she needs time to think about what she really wants, and she kept telling that she doesnt wanna lose me never ever and it s gonna be a disaster for her if she does. and i also she told me that one of the problems is that i dont express my feeling toward her (that s right) because i really love her but i was unable to tell her that , maybe i was waiting for her to tell me "i love you first" , i had the feeling that she was trying to pull the word i love you from me ever since but i ended up not telling it. also she said she doesnt wanna lose contact with me and keep talking to each other via phone and msn. and ome more final things that got me really confused is this conversation on msn with her. me: i just cant take you out of my mind her: why me: i dont know , maybe it is love her: i dont know what to say, i am really sorry me : that s allright .. .. .. .. me: i am very jealous i just cant imagine you with other guys her: why you feel like that? me: i have always believed that you are MINE!!! and i still believe the same now!! you are mine!!! her: and that s the way it should be man i dont know what to do, should i tell her i love you and fight and do my best to get her back or should i just move on and try to forget about all this even if it is hard for me please bear with me and give me some advices thanks Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 2, 2003 Share Posted October 2, 2003 From what ive read you two have a great relationship ,i feel you should tell her you love her.from what i understood she has the same feelings ( ) for you . its like the song says, tell her about it,tell her all your crazy dreams,let her know you mean it ,show her how much you mean........... Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 2, 2003 Share Posted October 2, 2003 Originally posted by VASH THE STAMPEDE ( ) ( ) thats what should have come out.not this () Link to post Share on other sites
Author lostconfused Posted October 3, 2003 Author Share Posted October 3, 2003 anymore opinions please???? Link to post Share on other sites
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