one goal Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 I'm a Blues season ticket holder so I'm at every Blues game. Well you see the usher assigned to my section shes really cute I think. I don't remember her name, but before I go to my seat every game she says hi to me, and small talk ect, same as when I leave the game I'll say bye to her, nothing big. Anyways i just think she's really cute. On one of the blues forums i talked to someone who also happens to work at the arena, and asked them if they could ask around far me. He did and from what he was told the girl is single. He was also told she was leaving in a week to go to school or something. Anyways how should I approach her to let her know I think she's cute without looking stupid and embarassing myself? Link to post Share on other sites
wuggle Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 She's possibly leaving in a week, is it important for you not to look stupid ??????? Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 17, 2009 Author Share Posted February 17, 2009 She's possibly leaving in a week, is it important for you not to look stupid ??????? I dunno if it's true though, just what I heard. Link to post Share on other sites
confused_2008 Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 I dunno if it's true though, just what I heard. With that logic you also don't know if she's single for sure, so what's your point? Link to post Share on other sites
wuggle Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 Look, your going to feel stupid if she moves on and you just never got round to asking her, so if your going to look stupid anyway just ask her out. The worst that can happen is she says no. If that happens at least you will be able to say "oh well I tried" and not forever look back and wish you had. Be nice, pluck up the courage and ask. If she says no then lesson learnt and you will still feel better about yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
nicki Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 Is there a game this week? If so, talk to her when you first see her. Don't take a chance to miss her when you leave. After a bit of small talk, ask her "After the game, wanna go eat some real food?" But, if the game gets out too late or whatever for that, then simply ask her if she wants to catch a movie with you this week. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Go for it! Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 18, 2009 Author Share Posted February 18, 2009 Is there a game this week? If so, talk to her when you first see her. Don't take a chance to miss her when you leave. After a bit of small talk, ask her "After the game, wanna go eat some real food?" But, if the game gets out too late or whatever for that, then simply ask her if she wants to catch a movie with you this week. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Go for it! Problem is I don't remember her name though even though I talk to her. Link to post Share on other sites
sand26 Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 Next time you talk, just ask for her number tell her you would like to talk to her some more. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 18, 2009 Author Share Posted February 18, 2009 Next time you talk, just ask for her number tell her you would like to talk to her some more. Good luck So you suggest I go right ahead and ask for her number without really knowing her or her name? Isnt that creepy? Link to post Share on other sites
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 Uh...how about introducing yourself. Then you'd get her name, too. Let her know you've enjoyed having her as your usher - would she be interested in getting together sometime? Then get the dang number. Sheesh. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 18, 2009 Author Share Posted February 18, 2009 Uh...how about introducing yourself. Then you'd get her name, too. Let her know you've enjoyed having her as your usher - would she be interested in getting together sometime? Then get the dang number. Sheesh. Well that person found out her name for me but I'll still ask cause I dont want her knowing I got it that way lol. She would think it's stalkerish. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 18, 2009 Author Share Posted February 18, 2009 The guy I'm talking to who works there gave me this advice. I don't work that level so you are out of luck there lol. As long as you are not being rude or anything like that you wont have a problem with us. When you get there just hang out and talk to her instead of going straight to your seats. Just make sure you are not interfering with her seating people, so she doesn't get in trouble. As far as asking her out as long as you have been chatting her up most of the night and she seems interested do it before the game is over and maybe try for something after the game. If the person I talked to was correct this may be her last game but I am not positive about that, so you can't play it too slow. Lets face it most of the time they have us figured out before we say a word as to whether or not they are interested so go for that great first impression. Quote: I am pretty sure her name is k***** not sure on the spelling though. I am not one to really ask for dating advice but just be respectful and this will probably sound bad but dont come off as "creepy". Try hanging out in the portal and just having a normal conversation and try and feel her out to see if she is interested. You might want to ask her what types of events she likes working and see if she mentions any concerts and maybe use that as a way to ask her out. But like I sad I suck at dating advice, my wife was dropping hints for weeks and finally got tired of waiting and asked me out lol. But anyway good luck and Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 18, 2009 Author Share Posted February 18, 2009 Only thing I'm slightly worried about is if she takes it the wrong way and finds it kinda creepy do you think she would have me thrown out of the building? Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 18, 2009 Author Share Posted February 18, 2009 Someone on another forum suggested trying this Say this: "Listen, I see you every game I come to, and I just have to tell you how beautiful I think you are! My name is _________." She will love it, and most likely get red in the face. Talk to her a little, and then ask for her number. Works like a charm. Link to post Share on other sites
confused_2008 Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 Someone on another forum suggested trying this Personally, I think calling her beautiful is a little much. I would be uncomfortable telling her that. I would make a more subtle compliment. You've been given the correct advice multiple times already, so I'm not even going to repeat it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 18, 2009 Author Share Posted February 18, 2009 Personally, I think calling her beautiful is a little much. I would be uncomfortable telling her that. I would make a more subtle compliment. You've been given the correct advice multiple times already, so I'm not even going to repeat it. What would be more subtle? Link to post Share on other sites
gopher Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 Try telling her that she has a great smile Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 18, 2009 Author Share Posted February 18, 2009 Try telling her that she has a great smile I just don't think that would be upfront enough. I mean i want her to know i think shes cute. Link to post Share on other sites
wuggle Posted February 19, 2009 Share Posted February 19, 2009 then how about "sorry, don't mean this to sound wierd, but I think your gorgeous, I would love to get to know you better, would you come for a drink with me sometime ?" Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 19, 2009 Author Share Posted February 19, 2009 then how about "sorry, don't mean this to sound wierd, but I think your gorgeous, I would love to get to know you better, would you come for a drink with me sometime ?" Sounds ok. Problem is I dont want to sound nervous when asking. Should I take a xanax before hand? Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 20, 2009 Author Share Posted February 20, 2009 How about when I see her if I say like Hi I forgot your name, my name is so so, and tell her I'm kinda shy thats why I don't talk alot because I think you're really cute. Link to post Share on other sites
ddraper Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 You just take a little more forward route. "Hey, it seems like you're a pretty nice person and you don't seem like the type who's a future serial killer, let's grab some coffee at 1 at (where ever)." Take it from there. Your move. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 20, 2009 Author Share Posted February 20, 2009 You just take a little more forward route. "Hey, it seems like you're a pretty nice person and you don't seem like the type who's a future serial killer, let's grab some coffee at 1 at (where ever)." Take it from there. Your move. I don't think I want to say that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted February 21, 2009 Author Share Posted February 21, 2009 So the game is tonight, any last advice I can have if shes there? Link to post Share on other sites
wuggle Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 sorry never responded sooner, lots of work. Yes, Be yourself, remember it's ok to be nervous, most are when placing themselves on the line, be nice, don't try to be over confident you will posibly come across as a jerk. And if she says no remember that's ok too, it's not the end of the world. Never tried a xanax but would probably suggest you dont, just go as you are. good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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