Author one goal Posted March 27, 2009 Author Share Posted March 27, 2009 So security stopped me before the game. I was just walking thru the tunnel to my seat, walked past her didnt say anything. Anyways two of the security dudes stopped me, and they told her to step out for a second while they talk to me. They told me not to talk about anything personal with her anymore, only if I need something, pertains to the event. They said I wasn't in trouble right now but to just behave. I stopped hitting on her, didnt talk to her and why did they approach me. IM pretty sure she saw me walk past her and she let them know I was there. I apologizd to her few days ago like i said and she accepted it, and said she didnt tell her boss. Looks like she lied. Oh well. the rest of teh game I just walked passed her, didnt say a word or even look at her. Link to post Share on other sites
sid3 Posted March 27, 2009 Share Posted March 27, 2009 guess that answers your asking her out for a drink question. Your probably going to get booted from the arena, or at the very least have your seat changed. She is obviously scared ****less by you. She is having the security guards speak to you so she has a record of there being a problem with you. Sounds like she is building a case against you even though you claim you have stopped persisting with her. Probably due to the fact that she still sees you. Most people would avoid her just from the sheer embarassment. It's obvious to us that you must have really creeped her out. Avoid running into her in the parking lot at all costs, otherwise you'll be headed to jail. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted March 27, 2009 Author Share Posted March 27, 2009 guess that answers your asking her out for a drink question. Your probably going to get booted from the arena, or at the very least have your seat changed. She is obviously scared ****less by you. She is having the security guards speak to you so she has a record of there being a problem with you. Sounds like she is building a case against you even though you claim you have stopped persisting with her. Probably due to the fact that she still sees you. Most people would avoid her just from the sheer embarassment. It's obvious to us that you must have really creeped her out. Avoid running into her in the parking lot at all costs, otherwise you'll be headed to jail. yea, I didn't say a single word, or even looked at her rest of the night. I personally think It was kinda rude of her how she acted cause when i apologized she acted like everything was ok and that. I wont get kicked out cause I wont talk to her anymore. She says hi I'll just keep walking. She doesn't deserve my attention. I dont see how she can have me arrested according to the stalking and harassment laws. If so I'd fight it in a jury trial. Link to post Share on other sites
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted March 27, 2009 Share Posted March 27, 2009 It was kinda rude of her how she acted cause when i apologized she acted like everything was ok and that. She's not concerned about your feelings. Nor should she be. She should be concerned for her safety. The fact that you are so casually talking about stalking/harrassing/jury trials is frightening. But then so is this entire thread. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted March 27, 2009 Author Share Posted March 27, 2009 What I was trying to say more less is why do girls in general freak out about guys so easily? I mean girls are quick to gossip to their friends that they think this guy is creepy. Why dont you hear it the other way around? I rarely hear a guy call a girl creepy. Link to post Share on other sites
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted March 27, 2009 Share Posted March 27, 2009 When women say a guys is creepy, they usually feel threatened in some way by him. Men don't usually feel threatened by women. That's why you don't often hear them say women are creepy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted March 27, 2009 Author Share Posted March 27, 2009 When women say a guys is creepy, they usually feel threatened in some way by him. Men don't usually feel threatened by women. That's why you don't often hear them say women are creepy. Well I've seen a lot of times a girl when they find a guy cute, they will follow him around and be persistant but usually the guy just finds it funny, but when a guy pursues a girl, they find it creepy. Im just saying from experince being in school and that and seeing how girls gossip about guys to their friends. One thing I will say and I've heard a lot of people say this, but girls should be more direct when letting a guy down. Girls very rarely are direct, and afraid to say NO. Why can't girls be more direct. I'd feel better actually if they just said Im sorry I'm not interested, than beating around the bush and trying to be very subtle. Why do you think girls are rarely direct when letting guys down? Link to post Share on other sites
likestolaugh Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 One Goal... 2 things: first, she WAS being direct. Everybody here saw it, why couldn't you? second, all we know about this story is what you've said... it's all from your perspective. Often a really creepy guy doesn't even know he is. This could very well be a case like that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted March 29, 2009 Author Share Posted March 29, 2009 Everything went good tonight. I just did what the security guys told me to do, and didn't talk to her. I didn't even acknowledge and say "hi" whenever I walked past her. Figure if she feels that way about me, not even worth acknowledging her or the time of day. I'm still kinda shocked. I never said anything bad to her, or rude or anything. Was kinda funny before the game as I was walking in the concourse and getting near my section enterance, she happend to be walking in the concourse also going to the section, but as soon as she saw me she went in on the other side instead. Link to post Share on other sites
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Well I've seen a lot of times a girl when they find a guy cute, they will follow him around and be persistant but usually the guy just finds it funny, but when a guy pursues a girl, they find it creepy. Im just saying from experince being in school and that and seeing how girls gossip about guys to their friends. Because, Einstein - there is a whole CRAPLOAD more male on female violence perpetuated than the other way around. A whole hell of a lot more men raping women (and in a lot of cases, women that rejected the men, knew the men, etc), men stalking and killing women, men beating women, etc. Women are conditioned from a young age, usually, to be very cautious! For good reason! So...for your enjoyment, some very interesting stats that maybe can show you what a scary place the world can be for a WOMAN: http://www2.ucsc.edu/rape-prevention/statistics.html - 77% of rapes are committed by someone known to the person raped - An estimated 91% of victims of rape are female, 9% are male and 99% of offenders are male. - 93% of women and 86% of men who were raped and/or physically assaulted since the age of 18 were assaulted by a male. http://www.metrac.org/programs/info/prevent/stat_sta.htm - three-quarters of people who were stalked were women. - 9 out of 10 stalkers are men. ------------------------------------------------------------- So - walking around with the sense of entitlement that you swing around like any woman should feel damn honored that you're talking to her - I'd be scared of you, too. You seriously see no freaking difference when men are physically stronger than women for the most part? When the nightly news is overrun with story after story of a man beating a woman, raping a woman, killing a woman? Are you freaking kidding me? Most of the woman raping man stories that I have heard, it was multiple women on one man, OR she had him tied down. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted April 4, 2009 Author Share Posted April 4, 2009 I will say though I think girls do need to be more direct with guys when they let them down. Link to post Share on other sites
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