joel Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 ok got question met this girl off the net today off plentyoffish. shes a older girl 35, i'm 30. she nice good looking , not sure if shes interested in me, i am attracted to her and like to see how it goes if shes interested right\ she had a pimple type thing on her lip and she even said shes trying to recover from the cold sores which is located on her lip. i seen it too and its there ok is it safe to date, kiss a girl with a cold sore, is it safe to have sex with her if it ever happens. i don;t want cold sores on my lip. i heard its not even curable. so would u date a girl with cold sores yes or no. and is it safe. i don;t want cold sores either or catch it do you think shes like loose go crazy type of girl b/c she has a cold sore. shes asian so am i. what would u as a guy or girl do . would u continue seeing em as a date. shbe said shes not looking for bf just meeting friends. but i want to see for more, but with cold sore, i am not surem Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 I think you should still "be a friend" to her and go from there. You'll at least know about her cold sore. Honestly, cold sore or not, if you want more while she does not; she might get bored and move on while you're still chasing. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 I get cold sores and have gotten them all my life. I generally don't let people kiss me when I get one. I've been in several long term relationships and married for twelve years and no one I've ever been with has gotten one from me - on their mouth, or anywhere else. I guess as long as you aren't doing any kissing or oral during the 'blistery' times you should be ok. There is always a chance you could pick up the virus, but it isn't terribly likely if you are careful. Link to post Share on other sites
slippery sneaker Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 What does it truley mean if you have one? You do have herpes of some sort? I never had on,but had cancers from tomatoes inside me real tiny ones.(what are those also?) Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 Don't kiss her when she has one and don't let her go down on you (if it gets to that!) if she has an outbreak. Other than that it is no major drama if you don't choose to make it one. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 Canker sores and fever blisters aren't quite the same thing. Canker sores are not contagious. Fever blisters come from a strain of the herpes virus, so if you get fever blisters technically you have a form of herpes. Link to post Share on other sites
confused and broken Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 My mom gets cold sores and my dad doesn't... Neither me or my sister has them either Obviously they are not always contagious there must be different types My friends family is the exact same I wouldn't base anything on that Other than don't kiss her on the lips when she has one and don't let her go down on you.....I guess Link to post Share on other sites
confused and broken Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 I meant dont let her go down on you when she has cold sores Link to post Share on other sites
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