what do i do if i came across more feelings than friendship with my guy friend.

[dakotamaiden]

this guy and i have been casual friends for a few months. but now iam afraid i came on to strong. i sent him a couple cards for different occasions. nothing mushy just cute and funny. a friend of mine was talking to him and talking to him like i really LIKE him. i told her thanks alot for causing trouble. the last couple of times i called him he didnt answer , i left a message. but he didnt call me back. he always calls me back.

 

if hes decided to keep some distance because he thinks i have stronger feelings for him , is there a chance to get back where we were if i keep it cool for now and dont bug him , let him have some time to see that iam cool and just want to be his friend. we are in our 40"s. but he has a thing against close relationships. we were doing find as friends. i am afraid i was giving him different vibes there for awhile. hope i havent ruined our friendship.. what should i do???

[Geishawhelk]

You have one of two options:

Either stop contacting him for a week or two, and let things slide, then act as if nothing's happened,

 

or -

 

Send him a text and tell him to stop being a jerk, what the heck's wrong with him, why's he gone so stony cold all of a sudden?

 

You know best which approach would work well........

[dakotamaiden]

i think i wont contact him for awhile, then act like nothing happened. sometimes i think i get over perinoid because i have never had a guy friend before thanks.