norajane Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 YOU are next. You deserve it. I hope your crystal ball is correct! I can set you up with someone close Not until TBF sends me the love potion...
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 Not until TBF sends me the love potion...oh i can a script for viagra from my uncle the doctor
Touche Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 oh i can a script for viagra from my uncle the doctor Somehow, I don't think that's quite what she had in mind. Love potion? I'll give you a love potion. Then again, maybe not. I'll just get bashed.
Author Trialbyfire Posted February 24, 2009 Author Posted February 24, 2009 How does he compare to your ex husband personality wise? Does he have that intensity/force that you've said you look for in men? Is he exactly in line with what you've found attractive in the past, or is he different in some way? I'm trying to get a sense of his personality. He's like my ex but totally unlike him. The major difference is that my snowman is someone who I've instinctually trusted because he's like a rock, dependable and real. He's a deeper, kinder, less selfish personality. And what I was thinking is that if you really weren't sure it wouldn't be a "mini" leap. It would be a BIG leap of faith. But you didn't say that. I can totally relate to the "mini" leap of faith. I know exactly where you're coming from. So what this comes down to is how sure you are when you accept a proposal, right? You know what? I think the more important question is how sure are you when you take your vows. Let's really look at what is important in the end here. And again, as I said earlier...better a broken promise than a broken heart (from divorce.)You totally get where I'm coming from.
Author Trialbyfire Posted February 24, 2009 Author Posted February 24, 2009 Me too! Me too! I could use some trial samples. Or a gallon bottle...actually, make it two. :bunny: Personally, I'm envious as hell as I've been more than a little lonely lately. But, I am thrilled for you, as well as for sb and allina and star! And I wish you and the snowman all the best. Thanks nj. Are you offering a volume discount?? You ladies are perking up my business opportunity sense!
Touche Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 You totally get where I'm coming from. Not in everything, but yep, in this I do think I do. I've been right where you are now.
jerbear Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 Thanks nj. You ladies are perking up my business opportunity sense! Send me a case! I'm contemplating using it on someone, well rescuing/asking someone; we'll leave that for another thread.
Author Trialbyfire Posted February 24, 2009 Author Posted February 24, 2009 Send me a case! I'm contemplating using it on someone, well rescuing/asking someone; we'll leave that for another thread. Hmmm...sounds interesting. I look forward to hearing about it. Perhaps it's not only the LS women who are or will be getting lucky this year.
Kamille Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 Woaaah! I've been off the Shack for a few weeks and look what happens! Didn't read the whole thread but Congrats TBF! He's a lucky man to have found someonse has level-headed as you are. From I know about you, all I can imagine is a mariage based on mutual trust and respect. All the best!
wierdmunky Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 I 'm so late, but I just had to say congrats! Story was amazing!
Author Trialbyfire Posted March 9, 2009 Author Posted March 9, 2009 Thanks wierdmunky! He's so good for and to me.
whichwayisup Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Any update??? Been a while since your thread was active.
Author Trialbyfire Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 Things are going very well, wwiu. We've managed to get our mothers in line with numbers for the "party" and have booked our venue, which is a relief! Beyond that, the rest will be a piece of cake, since we've got so much time to take care of it. No church necessary, since neither is religious and it's also our second marriage.
Lyssa Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 TBF, congratulations!! And I am unfortunately very, very not surprised. I am really starting to see why so many regulars either leave or take extended time away from LS. The sheer negativity of this place... CE, were you talking about me? And to answer for myself what Tara brings up, of COURSE I would have preferred he had waited to propose. I mean he could have at least waited until I was legally divorced! I was completely caught off guard. I guess he didn't want to lose you and your wooden spoon!
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