Author Trialbyfire Posted February 22, 2009 Author Share Posted February 22, 2009 Ha...no, he wasn't invited... He met him once before and was civil. Maybe he learned his lesson the last time he got one-upped by A. v. one-upping the other A. I haven't told him but it wouldn't surprise me if he already knows. I haven't spoken to him since the engagement and don't know what to say and aren't certain I'm responsible for telling him. Realistically speaking, I don't owe him anything. He's made some choices in life and so have I. Okay, okay, I'm being a coward. But then, what can I say to him? Nothing changes. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 I haven't told my ex about my marriage nor my pregnancy. (well I haven't even told all my friends about my pregnancy yet to be fair) We weren't married- but I don't think its any of his business. Onwards and upwards! Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 No, no. Not a coward at all. As you said, you owe him nothing. I was just curious. I didn't tell my ex for the longest time but then I kind of had to...but that's another story. Wow, they met huh? That's good that it was civil. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Trialbyfire Posted February 22, 2009 Author Share Posted February 22, 2009 sb, this situation is kind of difficult, since we've stayed in touch on and off for the past two years. He's also part of my social network and has never completely let go. He's also been difficult with a few of the men I've dated, in the past. Touche, he was civil in that he shook his hand and kind of nodded at him. None of the normal arsehole remarks. He just wandered off back to his date across the room, who he didn't introduce to us and left a short time later. It was a relief. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 That's because he was already married to his very pregnant wife who was expecting his baby, while you were dating him. Or was this another ex? Get off her case, will you? It's pathetic how you keep making irrelevant digs at SB. Don't you realize how it makes you look? Well, first of all, what she says her own philosophy is (and preaches to others) doesn't line up AT ALL with what she's describing here. She questions other posters about how long they've been dating, and insists that it takes a long time to get to know someone before you can be ready to enter into anything committed with them. And then she turns around and does the very thing she warns everyone else NOT to do!! OB - I'm astounded that after 10K+ posts, you think TBF would actually make something like this up! I mean...jeez. As for going against her own philosophy, don't we ALL at one point or another? If my skiman proposed tomorrow, I'd probably say yes too... and that's against my previous policy, and any advice I'd ever give anyone else. As Touche so simply stated: Sometimes it's really as simple as "if it looks like a duck and walks like a duck then it must be a duck!" It really is that way with love sometimes. Sometimes it's so simple and so uncomplicated and just so obviously right. It really is that way. Obviously you haven't been there before. I hope you do someday. While I normally hesitate to accuse anyone of jealousy and envy, I'm sincerely starting to wonder if it's ring envy. *raising hand* I'm jealous. I haven't checked your new pictures yet... they'd better still be there!! Would some of you like her better if she was still wallowing in her misery? It's OBVIOUS who here on LS only likes those who are suffering. It's sick. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 Pictures are down. Star is sad. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Trialbyfire Posted February 22, 2009 Author Share Posted February 22, 2009 No need to be sad, back up and one more. You get to see the complimentary desserts. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 Pictures are down. Star is sad. Aww. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 sb, this situation is kind of difficult, since we've stayed in touch on and off for the past two years. He's also part of my social network and has never completely let go. He's also been difficult with a few of the men I've dated, in the past.. Ooh come to think of it, I do remember that. Sorry! I know its not the same as my ex situation, but my point was, I don't think its any of his business. That's because he was already married to his very pregnant wife who was expecting his baby, while you were dating him. Or was this another ex? Goodness you have a good memory TC! Or did you have a little trawl back to my very first thread? Either way, thats creepy. Some of us have moved on from OW status. Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 I wanna see too!!! *pout* Link to post Share on other sites
Author Trialbyfire Posted February 22, 2009 Author Share Posted February 22, 2009 Pouters added! Link to post Share on other sites
sunshinegirl Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 Pouters added! pout pout pout (funny word if you keep typing it) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Trialbyfire Posted February 22, 2009 Author Share Posted February 22, 2009 Haha...ssg! The album's now public! Is that a pic of you? You're adorable! Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 Beautiful pictures, but I thought I'd get to see you and the snowman! *pout* :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 Haha...ssg! The album's now public! Is that a pic of you? You're adorable! I am so jealous... that dessert looks positively scrumptious. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 Oh please she does the exact same thing to me she follows me around to make completely irrelevant posts taking jabs at me as well in my threads. Well if you insist on leaving the door wide open Tomcat........ Stay out of my hair and I'll do the same to you. How's that for a deal? I was.... totally left you alone seeing as you clearly can't handle being challenged. But now you are doing the same thing "following" people around and taking stabs at them? Now who is a hypocrite? Look here's what I see others can pipe in here on this thread to derail the topic and comment about those who they don't like about their pasts and bring out all the dirty laundry to put them down to make a point but if you are part of the "clique" :laugh: it's ok it's all good who cares about your past let bygones be bygones. I LOVE the hypocrisy!! The past is PAST for a reason. Or should I do more penance for my mistakes? (the ones I have learned from and moved on from, unlike some!) And you of all people having a crack at me for being an OW, what a joke! Jealousy and bitterness gets you nowhere sweetheart. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted February 22, 2009 Share Posted February 22, 2009 Sorry for threadjack TBF. Just as well you are strong enough to handle being challenged. And I would like to say its nice to see you and Touche playing nice again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Trialbyfire Posted February 22, 2009 Author Share Posted February 22, 2009 Beautiful pictures, but I thought I'd get to see you and the snowman! *pout* :laugh: You got to see our hands. Did you notice his hands? When I first saw the pic, I died laughing. Someone was nervous! I am so jealous... that dessert looks positively scrumptious. We barely ate any of it. The two pieces were mountainous and neither one of us are big dessert eaters and truthfully, we weren't thinking about the dessert much! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Trialbyfire Posted February 22, 2009 Author Share Posted February 22, 2009 Sorry for threadjack TBF. Just as well you are strong enough to handle being challenged. And I would like to say its nice to see you and Touche playing nice again. No worries sb. Let's all just ignore the baiting and continue with the thread. Some things are worth it, others aren't. Yes, it is nice. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted February 23, 2009 Share Posted February 23, 2009 That ROCK just keeps getting bigger! And I want one of those desserts!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted February 23, 2009 Share Posted February 23, 2009 You got to see our hands. Did you notice his hands? When I first saw the pic, I died laughing. Someone was nervous! You're like "Ooh, look at my shiney ring" and he's all "oh man, I hope she doesn't run screaming!" We barely ate any of it. The two pieces were mountainous and neither one of us are big dessert eaters and truthfully, we weren't thinking about the dessert much! I would dive face first into that dessert. Mmn... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Trialbyfire Posted February 23, 2009 Author Share Posted February 23, 2009 That ROCK just keeps getting bigger! And I want one of those desserts!!! I was being a brat by posting...closer...ups! :p Haha...the desserts trump all! Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted February 23, 2009 Share Posted February 23, 2009 Oh please she does the exact same thing to me she follows me around to make completely irrelevant posts taking jabs at me as well in my threads. Actually, I kinda follow your threads, but rarely post in them. And I've never seen her do that. Look here's what I see others can pipe in here on this thread to derail the topic and comment about those who they don't like about their pasts and bring out all the dirty laundry to put them down to make a point but if you are part of the "clique" :laugh: it's ok it's all good who cares about your past let bygones be bygones. I LOVE the hypocrisy!! Stay out of my hair and I'll do the same to you. How's that for a deal? While I don't condone jealous people like yourself putting down TBF's engagement, bringing up HER past and HER belief system is admittedly relevant to HER situation. However, SB's background is not. So just stop it. As for "cliques," I really don't know WTF you're talking about. If you've paid attention, you'll see at least two women on this thread alone who, at one point or another have REALLY not gotten along with TBF, who are now over the moon happy for her, and congratulating her. (I am one of them.) Some people CAN be mature and get over conflicts. Moving on... Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted February 23, 2009 Share Posted February 23, 2009 I was being a brat by posting...closer...ups! :p Haha...the desserts trump all! I think it was the dessert that sold it for TBF? The ring in the avvie looks good. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted February 23, 2009 Share Posted February 23, 2009 Tomcat: Regardless of what's transpired in the past, SB is now happily married and pregnant with an angel, and TBF is engaged to a wonderful man, the product of one of the most romantic love stories LS has ever seen. Tell me: What do YOU have to be happy about in your own life? Link to post Share on other sites
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