sestina Posted April 28, 2000 Share Posted April 28, 2000 Well, here's the scoop:' The past: I met and dated this man for a year, we then ended up moving in together for four years. We had issues, a lot of them. We had a HORRIBLE break-up! It was terrible, the worst kind. We never had closure, really. We still both had feelings for each other, but we never really talked about it. I was so hurt! I did something stupid, wound up pregnant by a rebound boyfriend about 8 months after the big breakup. We got married, and had the baby, then we both realized what a stupid mistake we had made. We didn't love each other. We decided to divorce, suprise-suprise! Well, the whole time during the marriage I still spoke with (but never saw) the original man. The present: Now it's 6 months after the divorce, and I've been talking to him for a long time. He knows everything about the marriage, baby, divorce, etc.. Now we have started seeing each other. We've seen each other 4 times now, and every time I end up spending the night. We seem to be developing some kind of a relationship, but everything is very casual. The problem is that I still love him so much that I don't think I can keep my emotions out of it. It has been such a long time without him that now it just feels too good. Also, he is keeping it a secret from all friends, family, etc.. I think he has talked so badly about me in the past (because of how things ended)that now he can't swallow his pride enough to say "yea, I'm seeing her again." I don't want to scare him away, but I know I want to see him more. What can I do to win him over again? Link to post Share on other sites
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