Author sean001 Posted August 3, 2004 Author Share Posted August 3, 2004 so long ago i posted on here, and I just wanted to tell you that it does get better... it took a few months of serious pain and then a few more months of only a little pain -- and it was sped along by NO CONTACT. It seemed every attempt to "try" only brought it all back. It's been a long time since that happened, and I feel better as a result. So I just wanted to let everyone know who is hurting that it does get better -- with time. Escape the viscious circle for a while. It was interesting, but she dropped me an email a while ago and we went back and forth a few times and for a moment, I felt a tinge of that pain again -- and decided that it was best to still leave things alone. I'm sure someday we might "catch up" but it is highly unlikely we'll ever be "good buddies" or anything close to that. But you know what? I'm fine with that -- and so will all of you. Best of luck. Link to post Share on other sites
ECVEGAS Posted September 1, 2004 Share Posted September 1, 2004 There is a song out there by Nickelback in which they sing "one day we'll make it right, but not right now". In reality, time is the only healing medicine for a broken heart. Distance away from a painful situation ultimately kicks in the self defense that we all have, and natural instinct says that life must go on. I'm glad to hear things are better for you. I went through a bad situation in July of 03 and I knew only time would heal it. I am kinda in a situation now where I am dating someone else and we are running into some rough waters. But I'm going to let things happen. And if they don't work out, then only time again will heal it. But if it does, then no worries. But I am slowly realizing while being in my mid 30's that women need someone who is strong and confident in themselves. If you show too much weakness, or if you allow them to take advantage of you...they will lose respect for you. Plain and simple. Love is a tricky tight-rope. Every woman is different, which makes it so tough. But as long as you don't put yourself 2nd, and don't ever feel that a woman is more important than your well-being, you'll be OK. Link to post Share on other sites
aFighter Posted September 1, 2004 Share Posted September 1, 2004 when my ex ran off with another guy [and married the ..... 3 months later] i made sure to destory anything we had & that she would never come back. I ain't proud now of what i did, other members know that story so no need to repeat it. The fact that she is gone 150% & we will never ever speak again is a relief though. At least any false hope was crushed from the get go Link to post Share on other sites
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