I want to stay with my bf, but I want to try others too: am I a slut?

[CaterpillarGirl]

Originally posted by ryce07

here is a question for you- what would you do if you had a thing for a guy that has never been kissed? i dont want to take his kissing virginity

 

Kissing virginity?!?! OMG!

 

Umm...well, as I see it your options are:

1) Teach him how to kiss

2) Hire a girlfriend to kiss him first, and hope he doesn't go for her

3) Wait until he's lost his, um, "kissing virgin" status via another girl and then try and steal him from her (see numerous posts on this site if you are unsure how this is done)

 

Only half-seriously,

Caterpillar

[ryce07]

lol i know it seems ridiculous- we are both freshmen in college and I am lot more experienced than he is (he went to an allboys school) but now i definitely have a crush he has told me that if a girl was interested in him, she would have to make the first move b/c he is too shy, but i am not so sure i want to risk our friendship (which is awesome) to pursue relationship.... classic romance for me

[jamesmadison]

Classic Romance doesn't involve the word CRUSH in my book and using the word HOTTIE just says tons about you. You're not looking for romance, just to go around the block with some guys a few times. and have fun. You seem kinda young and i guess it all makes sense now. I think it's dumb to think you're a PRO at kissing and afraid to corrupt some guy who's never kissed a girl. You're a freshman in college, what makes you so much More experienced?

[CaterpillarGirl]

Originally posted by ryce07

lol i know it seems ridiculous- we are both freshmen in college and I am lot more experienced than he is (he went to an allboys school) but now i definitely have a crush he has told me that if a girl was interested in him, she would have to make the first move b/c he is too shy, but i am not so sure i want to risk our friendship (which is awesome) to pursue relationship.... classic romance for me

 

Hmm...well, this is just my philosophy...but I'm all for the "just kiss him" method. For better or for worse, at least you won't have to live with indecision and needless wondering.

[ryce07]

quick update on my love life or lack thereof... i talked to this kissing virgin and he told me he would only date girls he was in love with... how do you fall in love with someone before you spend anytime with them? anywa, that was a while ago and now we are best friends, often spending the entire day together. i still have feelings for him, but i think he is just too inexperienced and i am too inpatient. so we have been hanging out for two weeks nonstop but this weekend he will be away for a conference so i am eager to go out and meet new, hopefully more experienced guys... you wouldn't think it would be so difficult to just get laid in college...