bpierce Posted October 5, 2003 Share Posted October 5, 2003 My girl friend moved i with in 6 months of dateing now she wants to move out saying its her and she wants to coninue dating she still loves me but she has to be on her own for a year. She has two small children she is upruting that love it here. this happened all the sudden one week we cant get enough of each other the next she wont touch, kiss or nothing. where do you think this is going. love her want to beleive her but its hard. Link to post Share on other sites
BodaciousBunny Posted October 5, 2003 Share Posted October 5, 2003 She just needs some space... be glad that she still wants to be together. Knowing that alone, you should be happy....she still wants to be wtih you, she just wants ya'll to live on your own for a while before you decide to take it further. I have friends this happened with, just be there for her. That's all you can do, let her do what she wants to and feels like she needs to. SHe's not going anywhere.... =) Link to post Share on other sites
Java Posted October 5, 2003 Share Posted October 5, 2003 My girl friend moved i with in 6 months of dateing now she wants to move out saying its her and she wants to coninue dating she still loves me but she has to be on her own for a year. This sounds like she just changed her mind about living together. Fair enough. this happened all the sudden one week we cant get enough of each other the next she wont touch, kiss or nothing. This sounds like there's a bit more than just not wanting to live together going on. Maybe she wants to break it off, but doesn't know how to tell you?, so she's pulling away bit by bit. Only she knows for certain. I'd sit down and have an open hearted talk with her... tell her how YOU feel... no accusations, just your feelings.... tell her you've noticed she's pulled away physically and how that makes you feel, now she's moving out and how that makes you feel...... ask her what's really going on to cause these changes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bpierce Posted October 7, 2003 Author Share Posted October 7, 2003 We have sat down and all i get including today is i dont no whats wrong i just need to do this. she dose have a pattern i have learned see below. Just don’t know were I’m at, it all has happened so fast you would thing I had beat her or her children. This house has no AC no doors except accordion doors and the stove has 1 burner that works. And they (the landlord) are not painting or fixing anything and that’s alright with her. She is asking her father and ex-husband to fix up this property which she is renting because she doesn’t have the money but today she went clothes shopping for herself again. I don’t know who she is. Do you think she has always been like this and hides it until she gets what she wants? Ran away from home at 15 Comes Back to mom Moved in with first husband 7 years had chilled Ran back home Dated and moved in and married last husband, new house two kids ran away bought her own house dated a guy over her birthday, helped her move and he bought her everything after that broke up with him Got together with me moved in to get away from her development (her words not mine) lives with me two months and in 1 weeks time is running again. Link to post Share on other sites
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