zola Posted February 25, 2009 Share Posted February 25, 2009 If you met someone online and married them after a very brief courtship. (the marriage involved a cross country move) Then ran into their very recent exgirlfriend and she looked preggo, what would you do? Would you think she is playing a game? Everything happened so quickly w/ break up and new relationship that he did not know about her condition. Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted February 25, 2009 Share Posted February 25, 2009 Um 1st off I wouldn't marry some I met on line after a very brief courtship even if your living with them theres just so much that can be hidden with on line relationships! OK that being said.. So I don't completely follow you moved out there to be with him but then his ex turns up preggers and your worried its his?? is that the just of it all? it may not even be his have you confronted him about it? Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted February 25, 2009 Share Posted February 25, 2009 I would leave it alone. If she wanted to tell the alleged father, she would have done so. Link to post Share on other sites
Author zola Posted February 25, 2009 Author Share Posted February 25, 2009 This happened to a friend of mine, and it is a pretty messed up situation. Her BF broke up with her and two weeks later was married to someone else on the opposite side of the country. Things happened very quickly, and he says he wasn't cheating...but there had to be some form of communication because people don't get married that quickly do they? Anyhow, my friend is not sure what to do either, and I have no good advice. Link to post Share on other sites
movingonandon Posted February 25, 2009 Share Posted February 25, 2009 I've seen this happen twice: women terminate long term relationships - 1 and 3 years respectively - and then getting married within 1-3 MONTHS after the break up. Sick hos, IMO . Link to post Share on other sites
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