Bgirl Posted February 26, 2009 Share Posted February 26, 2009 Hello all I decided to write her becuase it seems like people in this forum provide good insights My issue is that me and this guy started talking about 4 months ago , half of this time was on internet because I was far away . Now I got back home and we started seeing each other BUT even though we have now been seeing each other for 2 months he still says that we are only friends ( yes we have been intimate) and he says that he needs more time to figure it out becuase he is not sure of the whole thing . Also he recently told me that he doesnt want to give more until he "is sure" . BUT he still wants to be friends , and he treats me good , he worries about me etc , he is sweet and I know he is not seeing anyone else , we hang out , we cuddle, we kiss.. My problem is that I dont know if I should put a stop to this if there is no potential or if I should keep it the way it is and let things fall as they may .. the only problem is that I don't want to wait and get hurt Any guys or girls here who have had experience with this type of relationships plese shed some light on me ! Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted February 26, 2009 Share Posted February 26, 2009 You're what is known as a fuickbuddy, or a FWB. He can have sex with you, but not be committed, and basically is a free agent so that if he meets a 'better' option, he can turn round and say: "Hey! we weren't actually going out together!" Up to you whether you continue this. He's very happy with the way things are. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bgirl Posted February 26, 2009 Author Share Posted February 26, 2009 So basically "hope " or the chance that things will progress into more is non exixtant ? He says he is not sure because he is just getting to know me now and that we should give it sometime....it might be because he is not 100% into me Link to post Share on other sites
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