Peter_pan Posted February 26, 2009 Share Posted February 26, 2009 dont really know how to start this but, i feel like i dont have any close friends around. basically this guy who hangs around with my other mates, said to me to watch my boundaries around my good m8s gf at her bday party back in jan. i have never crossed any boundary and for him to say that really wound me up cause it shows he has no respect for me. trust me i would never go after my best mates girl. ive known him since i was like 2. he made up that my best mate told him to tell me... which wasnt true as i asked my best mate. my best mate said dont worry bout it, he is like that and once he didnt talk to our m8 for 2 weeks over nothing.. since that day (back in jan) me and him havnt really talked and he has kind of split the group up, since me and him dont talk it feels like we are sharing the same mates. but he is always with them all and so i feel well left out. its made me feel really left out and down. i dont really know what to do. cause i dont really consider people like him a "mate", but he hangs around with all my other mates, and it seems like he is always with them. like a min ago he drove up my street picked up my good mate and another mate, then they drove off. and one time in town he came in with another mate and shook hands with everyone but me. kind of pathetic if you ask me. he is in the wrong not me. and to top this off. he has done it before, and told my mate i was all over his gf ! my mate got nasty about it but later apologised as he realised he was in the wrong. i think he has some major jealously problems. so this is why on this occasion i really dont feel i should be the one to sort it out again. and if i do initiate the conversation about what's going on, i.e whats the beef then? how long before he goes and comes out with some bs like this again? i made special effort not to go near my mates gf after the first time, cause i value my best mate very much. but recently it feels like he dont really feel the same. always hanging bout with this guy so its making me feel well left out. i dont really know what to do. huff Link to post Share on other sites
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