SUGARMAGNOLIA Posted October 6, 2003 Share Posted October 6, 2003 My boyfriend has a joint checking account STILL with his ex fiance. He says that they just can't find time where they can both go and take her name off if, but it is not just that. He still hasn't moved any of the things that she left when she moved out. He was upset when he wasn't invited to her nephews birthday party. I did tell him that he needed to take their pictures down, which he just laid face down. They were to get married this weekend, but broke up in January. Now, I have not been seeing him for a long time, 4 months. I am really not the jealous kind, I kind of knew what I was getting into before hand, and yes, I am a push over, but Good God. I really don't want to nag at him, but I am beginning to think that after 9 months of not talking to each other he needs to box up her stuff and move on, not because of me but for himself because its kind of pathetic. I'm I wrong? Would it just be mean and make me same jealous if I tell him that I can't see him anymore with him hung up like this? We were friends first. I knew him for sometime before dating him, so I do want to be understanding, I know that its hard to end things with someone. But he is a real good guy. We do get along very well and would have an great relationship. I don't want to end things with him if at all possible. I know that I have to say something to him but just have not found the right time yet. Any advise would be appreciated. thanks Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 7, 2003 Share Posted October 7, 2003 You're not wrong for being upset ,but to me i sounds like he's not over her yet. You need to have a talk with him to see where his heart is. Also let him know that the pictures are starting to bother you. It does sound pathetic that he's still hung up on her. Link to post Share on other sites
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