yongyong Posted March 3, 2009 Share Posted March 3, 2009 so I am exchaning message with this lady at online dating site we are going to meet soon. she is 6'2" and I am about that height. I should be ok for her without heels but she said she likes to wear high heels (up to 4 inch!) she said she is trying online thing since it's hard for her to find tall guys. I am not sure how tall she was talking about (relative term) anyways, I am concerned about my height (haha sorry for guys under 6 foot). I am thinking she might lose interest as soon as she notices I am shorter than her on heels? I don't care though. I will tell her how much I like her on heels and will even tease how short she is I kind of understand when woman is not that tall and she finds a guy unattractive who's shorter than her. but in this case, she is just freakin tall and I am not short so........ I should be ok as long as I am not being insecure about my height? lol Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted March 3, 2009 Share Posted March 3, 2009 Many women dont want to date guys that are not taller than them. But when a woman is taller than average, they dont seem to mind a few inches at all. She sounds confident , since she is wearing heels which make her even taller - so she will have no issue with your height. You are tall yourself. Dont give this a second thought. A tall woman in heels is pretty hot, says a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
Dee_Smith Posted March 3, 2009 Share Posted March 3, 2009 I am 6'7".. It is hard to find a woman over 5'9"... You are lucky to find one... Besides, I have a younger sister that is 6'0" and an aunt who is 6'4". Anyways, go have a good time with her... heels or no heels... instead of using it as a catalyst for discouragement, use it as something you can joke about and lighten up the situation if it appears akward to either peroson... Link to post Share on other sites
Jaytb Posted March 3, 2009 Share Posted March 3, 2009 so I am exchaning message with this lady at online dating site we are going to meet soon. she is 6'2" and I am about that height. I should be ok for her without heels but she said she likes to wear high heels (up to 4 inch!) she said she is trying online thing since it's hard for her to find tall guys. I am not sure how tall she was talking about (relative term) anyways, I am concerned about my height (haha sorry for guys under 6 foot). I am thinking she might lose interest as soon as she notices I am shorter than her on heels? I don't care though. I will tell her how much I like her on heels and will even tease how short she is I kind of understand when woman is not that tall and she finds a guy unattractive who's shorter than her. but in this case, she is just freakin tall and I am not short so........ I should be ok as long as I am not being insecure about my height? lol Did you tell her your height? She probably won't care because you're tall enough as is. If she only wanted men taller than her in heals she'd have a really tough time finding a date. (I believe something like 3-4% of men are 6' 3" or taller.) Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Tell me about it. Being 6'6", I get the cross-eyed stare all the time... everyone likes to stare at giants, but no one wants to marry or date one. BTW child-size women never turned me on much. Link to post Share on other sites
Mahatma Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Last year, before I started dating my current girlfriend, there was a girl who was 5'11 or so and I am 5'8''. She was a model (no really she was) but I just couldn't see myself walking with her hand in hand, and then if she put heels on it was all over. We had a few things here and there, but I just couldn't do it. If you are comfortable with it, and she already knows your height, I do not think there will be too much of an issue. Link to post Share on other sites
LovieDove24 Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 If you can see how tall she is on this dating website, I assume she can see how tall you are too. And since she has such strict height standards I can only further assume this is one of the first things she looks at. If you are already having conversation with her, I'm sure you've already passed that test. If she acts shocked by your "shortness" on the date, well then tell her she knew how tall you were and shouldn't have worn heels if it made her uncomfortable. Simple as that. I'd also like to add (as a tall girl myself) that if I date a guy who gives off the vibe that he's uncomfortable with my height, I immediately feel uncomfortable too. I am 5'9" and once dated a guy who was 5'7" who was totally ok with it...and another guy who was exactly my height who was constantly making comments about it. Guess which relationship lasted longer? Link to post Share on other sites
FleshNBones Posted March 8, 2009 Share Posted March 8, 2009 A tall woman could really be a tall man. Check for an Adam's apple. Link to post Share on other sites
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