MexicanBillBacker Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Breaking the friendzone is actually one of the easiest things you can do Its kind of a hot and cold thing First of all you gotta establish the friendzone yourself. Take her out to dinner or something of the sort and tell the girl that you consider her an amazing friend. Then do extreme things to contradict that statement. Take her out pay for everything leave her little gifts then yet again tell her that you view her as an amazing friend Rinse a repeat and you got yourself a brand new girlfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 I'm not sure I follow this exactly. Sounds like a recipe for Spaghetti Sauce. Oh, well........ Link to post Share on other sites
WTRanger Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Hmmmm... you're on to something here. Part of what has always sunk me into the friend zone was being too available for the girl. I like the hot and cold idea, it keeps you mysterious in the other person's eyes. Becuase really when meeting a girl to even try to date her you have to establish some sort of friendship, you just have to divert it when it comes to the intersection of friends and girlfriend avenue. You sir, are brilliant. Link to post Share on other sites
lammie Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Nooooo!! Although the hot/cold will keep the mystery and interest going. I was suckered into my situation this way with these platonic dates (finally not platonic anymore after 4 years)! He always pay for everything and always tell me i'm amazing. Whether his intention to lead me on or not, i led me very confused or i wouldn't be in this mess. (see thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t181466/) Because you're still telling her you're an amazing "friend" – a "friend" that's all it is. I rather someone be honest and tell me. Guessing game ain't fun, especially not after 4 years. Or just let it happen naturally when you're together ie. a bit more physical contact... etc. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 This can only be a temporary plan...a girl that likes you wouldn't be able to stand the suspense after so long, she'll want to know how you really feel about her. I had a good friend do this to me, he took me out and paid for everything, while having a girlfriend, and he knows I've always had a crush on him. Although he never tried anything physical past hugging, this made me want to understand how he saw me...so I asked, and he told me I'm a "friend". I tell him he's a good friend all of the time, because he is, but I'll always wish I had a shot deep down. So the point is, just be careful with people's feelings... Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted March 6, 2009 Share Posted March 6, 2009 OP, don't forget to appear to kiss her on the lips then move to the cheek and give her a nice pat on the back. There, there Link to post Share on other sites
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