bentnotbroken Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 It's time to stop now, your fiction novel isn't even a good cheesy novel. The smell of au-de-troll is in the air. Link to post Share on other sites
Mad Hatter Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 My OM lives ina 6,000 beachhouse right on the water..he said because he has a big bed he just lets her sleep next to him because it doesnt bother him and she sleeps on the other side..he is very secretive when we have conversations..he was in the garage talking to me on the phone in his car and she caught him last night and told him to carry on with his life and not to go sneaking around..he also told me that she has been having conversations with other men on the phone also..him and i are supposed to go on a cruise for one week for my bday in 3 weeks..i just dont know how to tell him everything thats on my mind..i dont want to lose him..but i want her out of that house..i am very tempted to email her..but then i will definitely lose him..geez i hate being in this situation..maybe i need NC and to move on..and my STBXH will definitely not take me back..but then again he is 3 million dollars in debt with 2 ex wives and 2 kids going through court so i dont need that baggage anyhow. Do you hear yourself? I have read a lot of loveshack posts but I don't think I have read anything as abhorrently selfish as this. You hate being in this situation? You MADE this situation! If you truly believe that this man is sleeping in the same bed with this woman and he has nothing to do with her... or he has to hide his phone calls and has nothing to do with her... then you need a wake up call. Furthermore, love is NOT about money! Link to post Share on other sites
Author MsPrada Posted March 5, 2009 Author Share Posted March 5, 2009 I know love is not about money but when my STBXH and i first met all we did was shop and travel and i was so spoiled that i wasnt really falling for him i was more into the material things but i loved my life..until he lost everything and lost his identity and i met my OM..we have been great for 6 mos up until 2 days ago his ExGF moved back in..i know i created this situation truth is im not ready to be married or committed to anyone and just need to focus on myself and when i do start dating again just to date someone my own age..i know i sound very selfish and a lot of people are probably thinking A LOT of negative thoughts about me but i am in counseling which my STBXH is paying for..so that i can get myself together. I didnt even mention my 4 yr old son who lives with his dad in Illinois who i am having a custody battle with. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MsPrada Posted March 5, 2009 Author Share Posted March 5, 2009 I wish this was a fiction novel unfortunately its the story of my life..there are plenty of multi millionaires where i live (in laguna beach,CA)..and they love to chase younger woman..and some of us get caught up in the fast life forget about whats really important. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 Ditch the shoulder pads, and cut the perm. And lip gloss ages you. Otherwise, I can't wait until the next installment. Jeesh, woman, have you absolutely no shame? Are you so superficial that our comments just wash over you? Or you just so uncaring about life that it's all to do with glitz, glamour and plastic surgery? I know you haven't mentioned it, but I bet it's crossed your mind..... Call it an educated guess. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MsPrada Posted March 5, 2009 Author Share Posted March 5, 2009 Ditch the shoulder pads, and cut the perm. And lip gloss ages you. Otherwise, I can't wait until the next installment. Jeesh, woman, have you absolutely no shame? Are you so superficial that our comments just wash over you? Or you just so uncaring about life that it's all to do with glitz, glamour and plastic surgery? I know you haven't mentioned it, but I bet it's crossed your mind..... Call it an educated guess. I blame these older men for the way that i think..corrupting the poor mind of a little 21 yr old..now im 23 and definitely getting a reality check! Link to post Share on other sites
Bluebird In My Heart Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 Know what would be awesome? If you made your own millions! It's good that your STBXH is paying for you to get some help, use it well. It's probably the only thing out of this period of your life that will pay off any sort of dividend in the future. Not a great idea to think of yourself as a poor little lamb that got used, even if it might be partially true, you must own what happened. I understand these guys are sophisticated people who run in a certain circle, and you have seemed to have lost an important part of your soul. I'm sorry for that, it is very sad. But - not too late for you to get out of the orbit of these people. I have a feeling you think you are getting something over on these guys, but trust me - they'll eat you alive. Get away. Find your heart. Seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 Nobody can corrupt you without your consent. Don't blame others for your own shortcomings. The word 'no' existed long before you were born. Nobody is holding a gun to your head, or obliging you by force to spread 'em, are they? It's choices and consequences. I'd start reviewing your criteria for a long happy successful and serene life. So far, you ain't cutting it. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 Who the hell is talking about millionairs? I was talking about he and the roommate sharing a bed in a 6,000 sq. foot beach house. How dense do you have to be or is that you think we are the dense ones? Fiction. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 I blame these older men for the way that i think..corrupting the poor mind of a little 21 yr old..now im 23 and definitely getting a reality check! My 16 year old couldn't be corrupted with this bull. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 bent, go along with it, it's a great story... this one could run longer than Peyton Place, Dallas and Dynasty all rolled into one...... Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 bent, go along with it, it's a great story... this one could run longer than Peyton Place, Dallas and Dynasty all rolled into one...... But her plot isn't as gripping. Link to post Share on other sites
Squirtal Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 This is a made up story isn't it? Or am I being cynical? *Hey Geisha* Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 Or as realistic. Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 It's time to stop now, your fiction novel isn't even a good cheesy novel. The smell of au-de-troll is in the air. Au de troll...ha ha ha! Love it! Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 This is a made up story isn't it? Or am I being cynical? *Hey Geisha* Hey hun! Gotta catch up! I'll email you this weekend.... Sorry, off topic. Does it count in this thread?? Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 With a 6,000 square foot house , dont you find it a little hard to believe that there is only one bed? LOLOLOLOL. I mean, thats really funny. Can you imagine? OM is obviously counting on MsPrada believing whatever she is telling us here. And lets say she does, because she is here for support. MsPrada, are you asking what you should do? Give him an ultimatum such as what? His gf moves out or you are not going on the cruise? I suppose you can, unless you want to go on the cruise. What if she doesnt move out AND she, not you, go on the cruise? The outcome you want is simply for her to move out ,correct? She is supposed to be there for a month or so..even two. Why not just wait? Either continue to see him or tell him you will see him in 2 months when she is gone. I guess I'm not sure what you are struggling with. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MsPrada Posted March 5, 2009 Author Share Posted March 5, 2009 2Sure- I want to give him an ultimatum about her living there...he has other rooms in his house he just says she can sleep in the bed with him..because the bed is so big it doesnt bother him..but whatever i want to go on the cruite..and i dont know if i can handle still going to lunch,dinner,movies,and sleeping with him while shes still living for the next 1-2 mos..I am attached to him. Link to post Share on other sites
Squirtal Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 MsPrada I have to say, if this is a genuine post...that he is back with the ex..they are living as a couple...you are his bit on the side...you don't live with someone, share their bed...and avoid talking to your supposed partner in front of her if you are not a couple..they are back together. It seems like you are being played like a fiddle. I'm sorry..it hurts, but you need to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
boldjack Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 My God this is about as boring as a soap gets. You need to throw in some arab terrorists, gay ex-husbands, crippled mothers, or drug cartels, something to spice it up. If it doesn't get better soon, I'm going to take my milk duds and turn the channel to HBO. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 How about some gay terrorists, arab ex-husbands, drugged up mothers and bedpan-running cartels instead? Now that's a plot to juggle with..... Link to post Share on other sites
jj33 Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 Or both! A husband who who falls in love with one of his fellow terrorists (a man) and begins divorce proceedings, struggling with the forbidden love that could lead to a miserable and painful death under the rules of his fundamentalist clan... Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 I know love is not about money but when my STBXH and i first met all we did was shop and travel and i was so spoiled that i wasnt really falling for him i was more into the material things but i loved my life..until he lost everything and lost his identity and i met my OM..we have been great for 6 mos up until 2 days ago his ExGF moved back in..i know i created this situation truth is im not ready to be married or committed to anyone and just need to focus on myself and when i do start dating again just to date someone my own age..i know i sound very selfish and a lot of people are probably thinking A LOT of negative thoughts about me but i am in counseling which my STBXH is paying for..so that i can get myself together. I didnt even mention my 4 yr old son who lives with his dad in Illinois who i am having a custody battle with. See Ladies, this is the reason it is so important to rear your daughters properly. You must instill a good education in their brains so they will be able to financially support themselves and not have to rely on their surrogate "daddies" to take care of them. It is so important to tell your daughters they are worth more than to be an old man's "Barbie" until they reach the ripe old age of 30 and get tossed out like yesterdays dish water. In 2009 it is really sad to read this kind of stuff is still going on. Link to post Share on other sites
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