Starlight43 Posted October 7, 2003 Share Posted October 7, 2003 Hi, its been awhile since i've posted. but i sort of have something that has been bothering me.... My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for about 2 years, he's off away at college and I'm still in highschool, but we are still together. I know that he cares about me, and I care about him and love him so much. and I believe that when you truly love someone and feel certain ways for someone you show it! Don't get the wrong impression, i dont overdue anything, i'm just a girl, but i love him, and i assure him that i do in my own little ways, which i think is normal and good. but i get so frusterated and sad sometimes because he seems so incredibly clueless about certain things. It's not that he's deliberately mean to me, but it seems like he doesn't appreciate me the way I would like him to. With how I treat him sometimes I feel like he takes me for granit. he used to be soooooo nice to me and would always show in little ways how much he cared, which assured me that he cared but that was a long time ago. and I wish he still did some of those things that he used to. Could you guys help me on ways that I could get him to really appreciate me and to every so often show me in little ways how he cares for me?? Thank you much!! Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 7, 2003 Share Posted October 7, 2003 All I could say is he has his mind set on college,so don't take it personal. You were on and off,did you two see other people during that time of seperation? If you did that could have a major impact on you relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
jalexy Posted October 7, 2003 Share Posted October 7, 2003 girly, yall need to break up. when you get out of highschool, you are going to change and grow so much, just as he is right now. these things that you want, he probably wont be able to give to you, as he hasnt been able to do so in these last 2 years. its time to move on Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted October 7, 2003 Share Posted October 7, 2003 What kinds of things do you want him to do for you? Link to post Share on other sites
SillyBean Posted October 8, 2003 Share Posted October 8, 2003 Just tell him! Tell him you feel underappreciated and it makes you feel like crap. If he loves you he will make an effort to show you some appreication. But keep in mind that some people are more affectionate than others. Link to post Share on other sites
rayray Posted October 11, 2003 Share Posted October 11, 2003 It's almost impossible to change someone, good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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