MDog Posted October 8, 2003 Share Posted October 8, 2003 There is this girl at my school that is really shy around me. She sometimes looks at me from across the hall. And she looks at me with the corner of her eye when I'm looking in her direction so I won't notice her looking. Last year she used to sit next to me alot in class. Does this girl have a crush on me? Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 8, 2003 Share Posted October 8, 2003 Theres not enough detail . Have you talked to her ,how does she act when she talks to you? Ask her friends would be my best advise. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MDog Posted October 8, 2003 Author Share Posted October 8, 2003 When I talk to her, she acts really nice but she's really shy and doesn't look at me. I forgot to mention this but she sometimes walks near me in a way(right in front of me) that makes me think she wants me to notice her. Link to post Share on other sites
Behrman Posted October 8, 2003 Share Posted October 8, 2003 Well I look at my lockers a lot in school... that doesnt mean I have a crush on them. Maybe she thinks your physically attractive, or maybe you just happen to be in her eyeshot every now and then. I reccomend trying to talk to her if you want to really find out... Link to post Share on other sites
Author MDog Posted October 12, 2003 Author Share Posted October 12, 2003 You would have to be there to see what she does. Anyone else have anything to say? Link to post Share on other sites
Behrman Posted October 13, 2003 Share Posted October 13, 2003 Originally posted by MDog You would have to be there to see what she does. Well in that case the only people that can help you are the people that know you and this girl... which, I think anyway, eliminated everyone at these forums Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 13, 2003 Share Posted October 13, 2003 He's right,unless the person posting had the same circumstances happen to them.Then the'll be able to tell you. Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 13, 2003 Share Posted October 13, 2003 He's right,unless the person posting had the same circumstances happen to them.Then the'll be able to tell you. Link to post Share on other sites
lovestruck Posted October 14, 2003 Share Posted October 14, 2003 talk to her flirt with her find out for your self you know the usal run into her and strike up a conversation. Even if she doesnt like you like that you could have a good friend ship Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted October 14, 2003 Share Posted October 14, 2003 Never EVER assume a girl has a crush on you because you see her looking at you. Some people out there are just lookers who look at everyone or stare at people without knowing it. Nothing's more disappointing than thinking a girl digs you and finding out she doesn't. Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted October 16, 2003 Share Posted October 16, 2003 MDog, There are some basic signs that will give you an indication of whether or not a chick digs your vibe. It's all about the body language. A woman will rarely come out and tell you she likes you, so you have to do the sleuthing yourself. Nevertheless, in their own way, they often try to make it obvious that they've got something for you. 1. She smiles a lot. Not just a glancing smile, but a wide-eyed smile that stays on her face for more than a few seconds. Better yet, she laughs a lot around you - acts really happy around you. Tell her some jokes (not off color jokes) and see how she responds. Be cute and funny and see what her reaction is. 2. She talks to you, and she asks questions about you. In other words, she wants to know more about you. 3. And here's the most important one: she touches you. I'm not saying she has to paw you to death, I mean that when she stops to talk to you, or when you talk to her, she actually gives you a brief tap on the wrist or the shoulder or something like that. It may seem casual, but if she makes it a point to touch you, and she meets the other two criteria above, then you're probably onto something here. Remember though, you've got to close the sale. Even if she does all of these things, chances are, she's waiting for YOU to be manly enough to make the move. You've got to initiate some contact with her instead of just passing through the halls and watching her smile at you. If you get positive feedback, go for it. If you're not sure, go for it anyway and see what happens. If she says no, she says no. Smile and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
KatrinaMarie Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 Okay hi, yes I'm a girl, go figure, and I say there is a possiblity that this girl likes you, I'm so extremely shy that it's emotionally painful and what you described is my flirting at best, so you should maybe strike up some small talk and go from ther, if she has a look of disgust when you encounter her obviously I was wrong if not.....well do it your way. But then again this is from someone who has never had any male on Earth interested in her, and I try to be liked, I am liked just not that way I guess Link to post Share on other sites
bball2079 Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 i would definitely go up and talk to her i mean as said before all she can say is no. Also KatrinaMarie i feel bad for you i mean the same thing happens to me except i'm a guy. Link to post Share on other sites
blue17 Posted September 15, 2004 Share Posted September 15, 2004 unfortunately you have to do the investigative work....and ask her out if you feel she is interested. Motto of girls who are interested in a guy - "If you would ask me out, I would give you my number." Link to post Share on other sites
The Farmer Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 sorry i messed up didnt try to do this Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 Next time you see her smiling at you break out with a BIG smile back and then *lock* eye contact with her. Then walk up to her and say " You know Judy ( insert name ) , You always have such a pretty smile " See what she does next..... Link to post Share on other sites
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