marklaar Posted October 8, 2003 Share Posted October 8, 2003 Hi, Now this is one i cant find much advice on, don't know why...maye i'm just being totally anal about it? Me and my girlfriend of 2 years have recently broken up (about 6months ago). We had our whole life planned and because i got scared that i was losing my life and who i was because of the relationship, i made it so i could be by myself. After a month or two passed, it didnt take long for me to realise that life just wouldnt be the same again, realised what i had done and also realised that there was no way i could fix it (she had gone back home overseas). Feeling pretty down and just not happy at all, an opportunity kinda popped up to get together with a girl i met a work. We went out a few times and had a kewl time. After a few weeks we started to have sex, only about 5 times...and not very good at all (well, not compared to my ex!) - (me and my ex were broken up at this stage) Well, everything got very awkward for me more than for this girl i met and i kind'ove said that we need to stop and that it just wasnt feeling...right (mainly because i'd realised that i was NO WAY over my ex!) and knew that i needed to tell her how i felt. Which i did a week or so later when i bucked up the courage. Since then, we are back together - still in different countries, but will be back together again in a few months. Problem is, i'm feelin so guilty about having sex with another girl. My ex was with another guy when i told her how i felt, she broke up with him the next day. Is what i've done wrong? do i need to tell her for up to regain our relationship fuLLY, or can i put this down to experience and just realised that now i know what i want more than anything!? I wish i could tell her but i know it would break her heart and spoil our chances of spending the rest of our lives together. PLEASE HELP! Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 8, 2003 Share Posted October 8, 2003 You were broken up at time so why would you feel bad.Why bring up something thats going to bring CONFLICT to your relationship. So forget about it and move on with your plan with her . Link to post Share on other sites
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