Would you consider this flirting?

[mr.dream merchant]

I told her and she broke down on the phone and said she feels like she's in an abusive relationship. She was crying her eyes out, she said that she's terrified of me and feels like I'm going to strike her if she doesn't do what I say. I think this relationship has run its course. Its like, me wanting fairness in these ridiculous boundaries is controlling and abusive? **** this stupid relationship.

[Dexter Morgan]

I told her and she broke down on the phone and said she feels like she's in an abusive relationship.

 

figures, she shows her interest to other men, and then turns this around on you. typical.

 

 

She was crying her eyes out, she said that she's terrified of me and feels like I'm going to strike her if she doesn't do what I say.

 

Oh, that right there is when I would have said, "ok, this relationship is over, don't come near me again" then hung up.

 

 

I think this relationship has run its course. Its like, me wanting fairness in these ridiculous boundaries is controlling and abusive? **** this stupid relationship.

 

I agree, she has issues and has the audacity to call it abusive when she clearly disrespects you and could care less about your feelings.

 

get rid of little miss flirty tart. her reaction today should make it all to easy to tell her to #### off.

[lamaman3]

I told her and she broke down on the phone and said she feels like she's in an abusive relationship. She was crying her eyes out, she said that she's terrified of me and feels like I'm going to strike her if she doesn't do what I say. I think this relationship has run its course. Its like, me wanting fairness in these ridiculous boundaries is controlling and abusive? **** this stupid relationship.

 

Shes right you know - if you had followed to the forum I told you about and posted there you would understand all the mistakes that youre making.

 

You telling her youre going to do XYZ is worthless - it makes you seem passive aggressive guy who dosent really want to flirt with other women - you just want to tell her that to hurt her. Like on the kindergarden playground - "oh yea, you flirted, well now im gonna flirt!!! You hurt my feelings - lets see how you like if i hurt your feelings!!!" Does that sound mature? Does that sound like a man? Does that sound like something her crush, Julez Santana would do.

 

Theres something a man must learn at some point in his life called taking responsibility. Hopefully you will learn it sooner rather than later.

 

1) If you want to flirt with other women - dont announce it to the world, just do it.

2) If you dont want her to behave in a certain way and she dosent stop - just say goodbye and find someone more compatible. Youre upset because shes not being "fair?" Life isnt fair and the world dosent owe you anything and neither does anyone else. Its a lesson we all learn when we become adults.

 

All youre doing is whining over and over about her behavior and trying to "get back at her." Its whiny, petty, and she can see right through it. This relationship is totally destroyed. Learn from this mistake in the future. The fact that you keep your mouth shut in order to "get laid" shows your attitude problem. If you adopted the attitude of a desireable man who isnt concerned with her petty BS and follows through with actions instead of whining she wouldve been BEGGING to have sex with you to get back in your good graces when you tell her you dont like what shes doing - not keeping your mouth shut about it to get some p*ssy and then crying/whining about it and trying to "get back" at her.

[mr.dream merchant]

Shes right you know - if you had followed to the forum I told you about and posted there you would understand all the mistakes that youre making.

 

You telling her youre going to do XYZ is worthless - it makes you seem passive aggressive guy who dosent really want to flirt with other women - you just want to tell her that to hurt her. Like on the kindergarden playground - "oh yea, you flirted, well now im gonna flirt!!! You hurt my feelings - lets see how you like if i hurt your feelings!!!" Does that sound mature? Does that sound like a man? Does that sound like something her crush, Julez Santana would do.

 

Theres something a man must learn at some point in his life called taking responsibility. Hopefully you will learn it sooner rather than later.

 

1) If you want to flirt with other women - dont announce it to the world, just do it.

2) If you dont want her to behave in a certain way and she dosent stop - just say goodbye and find someone more compatible. Youre upset because shes not being "fair?" Life isnt fair and the world dosent owe you anything and neither does anyone else. Its a lesson we all learn when we become adults.

 

All youre doing is whining over and over about her behavior and trying to "get back at her." Its whiny, petty, and she can see right through it. This relationship is totally destroyed. Learn from this mistake in the future. The fact that you keep your mouth shut in order to "get laid" shows your attitude problem. If you adopted the attitude of a desireable man who isnt concerned with her petty BS and follows through with actions instead of whining she wouldve been BEGGING to have sex with you to get back in your good graces when you tell her you dont like what shes doing - not keeping your mouth shut about it to get some p*ssy and then crying/whining about it and trying to "get back" at her.

 

That forum is good stuff man. Really helps you get your cajones in check and take command of your relationship. I've been trying some of the methods and I'm starting to see my GF shift into a less argumentative and more complacent GF. Its no longer about her needs but mine, I don't offer her reassurance at all, when she gives me a **** test, I disregard it, laugh at her. I guess it took me looking at that forum to realize I was doing it all wrong. Its not about being the sweet "anything you want babygirl" guy, its about being the dominant one in the relationship but doing it in a way that you aren't aggressive or abusive. You simply show them who's calling the shots, the ball is in your court 100% of the time, your needs before theirs. I also started reading Daniel Rose's Sex God method. Thanks again Iamaman.

[angie2443]

OK. So your 20 and your girlfriend has to be about the same age. Your to dang young to be in a long term relationship and so is she. Look, these boards are full of people that settled down early or only dated one person before they became married. Most have regreted it. Leave your girlfriend, date around and have fun. You say it's hard to find girls like her. How would you know? I might be mistaken, but it doesn't sound like you've had that much experience. Like I said, date around. Date a variety of girls and you'll eventially find someone who fits you better. You'll also learn to work a relationship better, for both you and your partner. Good luck.