Janus_28th Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 this is my first post here.. i was scrounging the net for any forums that could help me and luckily i found this... me and my precious had been going on for more than a month now... vacation time is coming and, sadly i won't be able to spend time with her.. she have to spend time with her mother, and there's her studies that she must concentrate on.. >sigh< if only the place where she lives is just around the corner, i won't have to travel 5 hours by bus to see her for a few hours... LDR.. it is hard, but rewarding... Trust and faith will bring us through the test... Link to post Share on other sites
lovestory5 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Life doesn't end up. Smile and be happy. : ) Link to post Share on other sites
Bearandsue Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Ah if only.....*sigh* Link to post Share on other sites
Nicodaemos Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Be honest with each other, talk about all the little things. The minor day to day drudgery is a welcome thing to hear from someone that you care about. It makes you feel a part of thier lives, but makes you ache knowing that you aren't there already. Only a month, and you feel so strongly, I hope that you two only grow in that feeling. It is only two months apart, use this time to get to know the other person in mind, not just behavior. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Janus_28th Posted March 12, 2009 Author Share Posted March 12, 2009 thanks for all the input guys, it feel great that there are still people who are very helpful.. i'm planning to go get a summer job to pass the time... again my sincerest thanks... God bless us all... Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Keeping yourself busy is crucial. And do a lot of communicating about your activities so the two of you can still feel you are part of each other's lives. If you are feeling insecure for whatever reason DO NOT ignore it and try to act "normal". It is really easy for the other person to pick up on you acting different - and then it causes them to be insecure - and then there's a big ol' mess. Just get honest. Completely honest. Have a talk about it - and that it is important that each of you talk about what you are feeling so you can help each other work through those times. I can't stress how important that is. And just remember that there will be an end to the distance. That you are whittling away at the time - and it will be over. Then the two of you will be together and THAT is the most important thing. Don't lose sight of that because of the things you miss physically "momentarily". Link to post Share on other sites
Author Janus_28th Posted March 13, 2009 Author Share Posted March 13, 2009 yeah. but nowadays i find myself smiling every morning...i dunno it just happens...i know she loves me, man who'd keep a scrapbook for writing down my messages for posterity?? ow, for sure when we meet again we could almost explode... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Janus_28th Posted April 4, 2009 Author Share Posted April 4, 2009 i pushed my tears back... Link to post Share on other sites
Bearandsue Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 Really sorry to hear that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Janus_28th Posted April 9, 2009 Author Share Posted April 9, 2009 thanks.. lately ive been busy, a must need for newly break-ups... Link to post Share on other sites
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