JonBoy454 Posted October 8, 2003 Share Posted October 8, 2003 Hello My g/f and I have been together in a LDR for about 3months now. She is 17 and I am 19. We live 3 hours apart and get to see each other about 1-2 times a month. It has been around a month since the her last visit and it was great. We had tons of fun together. The problem is it seems like our relatonship is starting to fade now, and I don't know what to do about it really. Our relationship seems to have started suffering when she started back to school. Before she did we talked EVERY night on the phone and emailed at the very least once a day. Now, we talk about 2 times a week on the phone for about 15mins a time if im lucky. She says she has tons of homework and stuff and just doesn't have time to call me or email me. Im starting to get dicouraged about our relationship because of this. I feel like she is not really trying to make it work anymore. What should i do? Im trying really hard to be understanding about all this, even tho i don't i don't really understand. lol I email her EVERY night before i go to bed and send maybe a text message or 2 a day while she is at school. I usually write a fairly long letter about once a week. I do everything i can think of to ler her know how much she means to me and how special she is. Could i be pressuring her to much? I truly love this girl with all my heart and i have been 110% faithfull to her. She means more to me than any other girl ever has, and i don't want to lose her or give up on her very easily! Is there anything i can to do to help fire things up again????? Any help would be wondeful!!! Thanks in advance! Link to post Share on other sites
mewbomb Posted October 8, 2003 Share Posted October 8, 2003 you are quite young and think that if you back off just a little, cause if you think you might be pressuring, you probably are! I would lessen up on the letters and the like and see how she reacts, if she doesn't change the thoughts in your head... might be something else... Sorry to break it to you, but trust me on this one, im alot older and have done this before, if you don't work constantly at a relationship(specially a LDR) it is not going to last... Ive done it a number of times before and it will last for a while, but when you get lonely... THEY ARE NOT THERE!!!! you see... let us know what happens.. try to back off a bit You say "The problem is it seems like our relatonship is starting to fade now", why do you say this? what did she do? are you feeling different? You have to look at all that stuff!! take care and good luck..... Link to post Share on other sites
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