Cant figure out why i so badly want a GF...i feel so alone lately

[Brady_to_Moss]

I just cant seem to be happy anymore being along. I use to love it. But ever since the start of this year, i feel so alone. I have so many great friends at school but nothing on the girl front.

 

I am very talkitive and like people. Some of my roommates sit in the room all day long and dont do a thing yet some how get the girls they want. I make more people laugh than anyone i know. I know many girls at school but all either have BF's or dont want to date. I am trying to be more positive. I have only been in college for 2 years now and have allready met so many new people and i know that i still have another 2 great years left to meet someone.

 

I feel as if i dont meet someone in college i will be in trouble becasue i have herd so many stories of people finding their true love in college and i know people that have told me it gets a lot harder outside of school to meet new people. I am a bit shy so i am trying to kick that so i will be ok when i get out of school if i dont have a GF.

 

I have had girls interested. This one girl last semester really fell for me but i did something stupid and ever since then we dont talk. I have had the chances to get with girls on those drunken nights but i am not a one night stand guy. I just cant do it. I want a relationship and not worry about the sex. I could care less about sex. Just someone amazng to spend my time with. All i do is hang with the same friends everyday and i like it yet i need a change..

 

If i cant be happy by myself...can i really be happy with someone else? It may have to do with my confidence as well. I just dont know how to act or be confident in everything i do. /rant lo

[Beautiful Inside]

well brady first of ALL GET YOURSELF a hottie that likes to burn one down you guys will have so much fun times together lol jp for people who take that offensive. no but when i first started talking to my bf he asked one day randomly if i wanted to smoke i wa slike yea y not i never smoked in my life i was 22 i think and ever since we've had so much un with eachother we smoke at night and watch all these tripped movies and we take showers and like were totlly zoned out we go on road trips all stonered out lol we so dont look like the typical pot heads neither everyone always gets a kick out of us lol but my point is find yourself a cute nice girl whose opened to doing things you like to do. i know what you mean about being lonely though after being in my current relationship i cold never b single everrrr i love having one best friend and sharing ever single thing with that person the good times and the bad knowing this person knows ever single thing about you and it feels so good knowing you have somone that genuine loves and cares about you. i jujst want to say make sure you find yourself a nice sweet girl that loves your family she has to be family oriented moms love that! and somone who can just chill with you down for anything not a prissy girl whose high maintanence i hate those kind of girls yea their pretty but looks go away eventually so thats so not whats important life is so short its flying by for myself and i know that looks on the outside they fade fast its whats on the inside that keeps you inlove and humble. well i hope this long speel has helped you my friend!

[Enema]

^^^ Thanks, now I have a headache.

[Brady_to_Moss]

well brady first of ALL GET YOURSELF a hottie that likes to burn one down you guys will have so much fun times together lol jp for people who take that offensive. no but when i first started talking to my bf he asked one day randomly if i wanted to smoke i wa slike yea y not i never smoked in my life i was 22 i think and ever since we've had so much un with eachother we smoke at night and watch all these tripped movies and we take showers and like were totlly zoned out we go on road trips all stonered out lol we so dont look like the typical pot heads neither everyone always gets a kick out of us lol but my point is find yourself a cute nice girl whose opened to doing things you like to do. i know what you mean about being lonely though after being in my current relationship i cold never b single everrrr i love having one best friend and sharing ever single thing with that person the good times and the bad knowing this person knows ever single thing about you and it feels so good knowing you have somone that genuine loves and cares about you. i jujst want to say make sure you find yourself a nice sweet girl that loves your family she has to be family oriented moms love that! and somone who can just chill with you down for anything not a prissy girl whose high maintanence i hate those kind of girls yea their pretty but looks go away eventually so thats so not whats important life is so short its flying by for myself and i know that looks on the outside they fade fast its whats on the inside that keeps you inlove and humble. well i hope this long speel has helped you my friend!

 

Thanks, I actually do smoke but usally only with my roommates or at my buddys off campus house. I just want to find a girl thats not really my friend so i am not digging myself out of the friend-zone hill haha. I always want to approach random girls but all the people at my school has their own clicks becasue it is so small. I never see random people go up and talk to eachother. I would think a girl would find it creepy if i just walked up to her and said hey i was looking at you from across the room. IMO that just sounds weird.

[Brady_to_Moss]

I beleive i am somewhat confident. I walk tall. Joke around with girls in that somewhat cocky but funny way. Always make eye contact with everyone i talk to especially girls.

 

This past week at school i was standing in a building just watching people pass and i would look right into the eyes of some girls i find attractive and once girl stared right back and i didnt look away and neaither did she and gave her a slight smile but she just walked away. Could it be that i just really havent found anyone that fits me??

[Beautiful Inside]

try and just be more open and put yourself out there even if it is uncomfortable, youll b glad you did. i know how u feel though...youlll b suprised how most girls take to a guy who approaches them, i think as long as you show confindence girls will love yah!

[Beautiful Inside]

girls r way more shy they expect the guy to go to them to approach them atleast i know i do! you could be the hottest MF in the room but i will never apporach you i think a guy should appoach me lol im old school! lol

[CandyGirlXO]

Yeah, girls probably won't approach you. I never have. You just have to do it.

 

I am a lot like you. I hate being single and I was also worried about finishing college w/o a BF. Well my college BF and I broke up, and it is a lot harder to find someone.

 

But, I eventually did. You have to think about it like this. 48% of people get a divorce, so there are plenty of single people of ALL ages. So don't worry about a timeline. I got frustrated too, because my life wasn't going according to plan. But you can't plan things like that. It will happen eventually.

[Brady_to_Moss]

Yeah, girls probably won't approach you. I never have. You just have to do it.

 

I am a lot like you. I hate being single and I was also worried about finishing college w/o a BF. Well my college BF and I broke up, and it is a lot harder to find someone.

 

But, I eventually did. You have to think about it like this. 48% of people get a divorce, so there are plenty of single people of ALL ages. So don't worry about a timeline. I got frustrated too, because my life wasn't going according to plan. But you can't plan things like that. It will happen eventually.

 

I mean i have never walked up to a random girl that i found attractive. All the people i know are based off of my friends and their friends. I just wouldnt want to walk up to a beautiful young women and say wow your beautiful. She will think i am a creep.