cavi Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 I don't understand this girl... She is all over me and so into me when she gets hammered and stuff. Though i know she doesn't just want a sexual relationship... When i see her sober though she still shows some signs that she likes me. Its pretty obvious because we'd have this awkward feeling around each other.. She texts me sometimes and she sends "caring" messages... but whenever i ask her something about "so, when are u free?" She'd reply something "like i'm never free homie" I don't fricken get it, is she playing with my mind and should i just move on? Link to post Share on other sites
ianandris Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 Yes and yes. She might be playing hard to get, but that's lame as hell. If she never wants to come out and play, she's a waste of your time Link to post Share on other sites
I'm Joe Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 Pretend to be looking for other women and judge her reaction. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cavi Posted March 16, 2009 Author Share Posted March 16, 2009 kk will do thx for the advices!!! any more other opinions plz? Link to post Share on other sites
WTRanger Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 Is she naturally a person who is very touchy when she's drunk? Or does she solely focus on you when she's drunk? If she's naturally a person who just likes contact then it may be hard to judge. However, if she's not then she's into you. Usually when someone's inhibitions are in a suppressed state, as in our wonderful friend alcohol, then that's usually a good clue as to what that person is really thinking. She could also just get her jollies off on the thrill of being chased by you. The chase is fun for a while, then it gets lame. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 Regardless if she's playing games or if she's a touchy person when drunk, either way, walk away. You've already asked her out and her return comment was blatantly rude. Go find another girl who's going to be on the level or is interested. Link to post Share on other sites
Justanotherschmuck Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 She NEEDS to know that you want her. She doesn't want you , or it would have happened. But to her, you fill the need. The knowledge that she has someone wrapped around her finger. People like this are the worst. Your life is only important in how it relates to her own feelings of worth. Start talking about how much you like other women. Believe me, she will bad mouth them big time. She want's your devotion, NOT you. Stop thinking with your little head, and start using you big one. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cavi Posted March 19, 2009 Author Share Posted March 19, 2009 Is she naturally a person who is very touchy when she's drunk? Or does she solely focus on you when she's drunk? If she's naturally a person who just likes contact then it may be hard to judge. However, if she's not then she's into you. Usually when someone's inhibitions are in a suppressed state, as in our wonderful friend alcohol, then that's usually a good clue as to what that person is really thinking. She could also just get her jollies off on the thrill of being chased by you. The chase is fun for a while, then it gets lame. Yes, and i tried just not contacting her for a while. She just texted me a few days ago trying to start convo and stuff. Also just treated her 'normally' at work like my other co-workers. Dunno what's up tho honestly. Link to post Share on other sites
Chrome Barracuda Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 ...move on. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted March 20, 2009 Share Posted March 20, 2009 Pretend to be looking for other women and judge her reaction. Don't pretend. Just lay low and focus on something else more important. Link to post Share on other sites
thegoodlife Posted March 20, 2009 Share Posted March 20, 2009 The girl's not worth your time. Let it go and if she really is serious about you, she will figure out that she needs to get her sh*t together and she will come to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Beautiful Inside Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 omg i'm joe is so right try doing what he says she her reaction if she really only likes you as a friend she wont give a **** but if she likes you even a little she will step up to the plate and finally be available to hang out with the homie lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author cavi Posted March 21, 2009 Author Share Posted March 21, 2009 thanks for the advice guys! i will just keep it cool i guess, act normally as i do around everyone. i did that for a few days and didn't text her. She finally sent me a txt to start convo Link to post Share on other sites
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