geebz Posted October 9, 2003 Share Posted October 9, 2003 i just got back with my exgirlfriend. we were together for 9 months and took a 2 month break because we had an excess of fighting and personal problems to deal with. well, we talked a lot of things out and have become the couple we once were. however, i had a strange experience today. I was in her apartment looking for a pen and i opened up her nightstand drawer. What i found instead was an opened box of condoms and an open wrapper. she wasn't in the room when i came across it. I was weirded out and don't know what to think. She told me she wasn't with anyone, but the evidence clearly states she has been. what do i do? she apparently lied to me again, maybe because she didn't want to hurt me. well it hurt finding the box and the wrapper... tell me what you think? should i even bring it up? it bothers me, but if i bring it up, what will it solve? Link to post Share on other sites
noahks Posted October 9, 2003 Share Posted October 9, 2003 whats up man... thats tuff. The girl im in love with cheated on me 3 times. I was with her 4 months after I found out... it is the worst feeling ever. I ended up breaking up with her, but it was the worst mistake of my life... its ok to bring it up but its up to you if this feeling is worse then not being with her Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 9, 2003 Share Posted October 9, 2003 I will have to disagree noahks.She's cheated on you,you have the ultamate evidence in front of you.why the hell would you want to stay with someone who is not faithful and would lie to you?She did it once ,whats to keep her from doing it again. Confront her with your findings and let her know she did you wrong. My advise is move on you could find better. Link to post Share on other sites
LadyX Posted October 9, 2003 Share Posted October 9, 2003 Did you agree to see others while you were broken up? Confront her with the evidence, observe her reaction, then make the decision as to what you want to do about it. Even if she doesn't want to call it cheating, she did lie about not being with someone else. I can't believe she would leave something so increminating lying around! Link to post Share on other sites
NatoPMT Posted October 9, 2003 Share Posted October 9, 2003 I agree with LadyX - this depends on the 'terms' of your break. and (as an old romantic) it definately wasnt there from when you 2 were together? dont confront her, talk to her about it and give her the chance to explain otherwise it will eat you up and you'll end up back where you were. keep your cool and be reasonable and make sure you get to the bottom of it, but if you werent together at the time, dont go in ham-fisted. good luck x Link to post Share on other sites
novascade Posted October 9, 2003 Share Posted October 9, 2003 you don't know if cheat on you, or if it happened will you broke up, or when you got back, but within two month she slept with someone else, move on it'll hurt less Link to post Share on other sites
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