noahks Posted October 9, 2003 Share Posted October 9, 2003 I'm in so much pain. I broke up with my girlfriend four months ago because she cheated on me. It was the worst mistake of my life. after i found out she cheated on me I stuck with the relationship for four months. I miss her so much and after not being with her I know I love her so much. She is in a coed boarding school with a population of 90 people, out in the middle of no where. I finally found out where she is and drove 280 miles to find her... they denied me contact with her and of course made me leave immideatly. she never saw me. I know where she is now.. should I do somthing crazy? she gets back in june... and there is a chance she wont be back at all. What should I do? Does anyone think she still loves me? I havent been able to speak to her for four months... all she knows is I dont want to be with her... Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 9, 2003 Share Posted October 9, 2003 Bro you really have to move on .Didnt you post about this earlier in the month? Why do people tend to hold on to what shouldn't be acceptable. She cheated on you and still you stood by her side ,thats hard, knowing shes been with someone else while saying she loves you. Move on theres better outthere. Dont feel hurt anymore you are tearing you self apart,over someone whos not fauthful Link to post Share on other sites
shopgrl Posted October 9, 2003 Share Posted October 9, 2003 Noahks- I don't know how old you are but since your ex is in boarding school, I am guessing that you are in your teens. I can sympathize with you. I am now 25 years old now but when I was in my teens, my boyfriend cheated on me and I broke up with him. We eventually got back together but only to break up again. I was unhappy with him and unhappy without him. Anyway, once I started dating other guys, I got over him rather quickly. I wonder whether you have dated any other girls since you broke up with your ex. If not, I would suggest that you try it. You may find out that it's not your ex that youre missing but rather just having a girlfriend. My advise to you would be to forget about this girl for now and try to move on. Enjoy your youth, date around and have fun. Youre too young to be stressing over a girl. And who knows, if she comes back from boarding school, maybe you two will hit it off again. What's meant to be will happen, no matter how long it takes. True love never dies. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
GIZMO Posted October 9, 2003 Share Posted October 9, 2003 Once a cheater always a cheater.. Let her go and find someone who loves you back.. Link to post Share on other sites
novascade Posted October 9, 2003 Share Posted October 9, 2003 hey going crazy it's painful, let go before it's to late Link to post Share on other sites
hopeinternational Posted October 10, 2003 Share Posted October 10, 2003 You're in much pain because you've given so much to her and she's probably the main focus of your life right now. It will continue to be this way unless you move on. You should let her go and take it as a painful lesson in life. If it's of any comfort to you, you're not the only one who has gone through this... How we get over this pain, well...change the focus to somewhere else - family, buddies, hobby, work. You need to do this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author noahks Posted October 10, 2003 Author Share Posted October 10, 2003 but how can I move on? I have been with many other women and none of them feel good. Everytime I do anything with anyone else it just feels so wrong... Even a kiss with anyone else just feels bad. It feels like I cant have any other emotions for anyone else... I have been with other women and everytime it just does not feel the same, it feels bad. I know I should move on, but does anyone think she will want to be with me in 8 months... durring this time all she is doing is telling her self im not in love with her. Link to post Share on other sites
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