cutechick1 Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and I really never had a reason to not trust him up until now. About a month ago, he started hanging out with his friend and these two girls.(I really did not know about the girls) One night my boyfriend and I were supposed to go out on a date and he told me to call him back in about an hour. So I called him back and he said he was out with his friend. I didn't really think too much of it at that point so I just went out with my friends. I went to go call him and ask what's up and I find out he was still with his friend, but now with those two girls. I didn't know what to think at this point, I would like to say that I flipped out for no reason. I was pretty upset but I tried to get over it. The next morning, we started to argue over text messages. He broke up with me saying I didn't trust him and all this stuff. I was miserable. Later that night, I found out that they were all hanging out again, but I did get to see him after that and we talked a bit. When I got home I couldn't sleep because I couldn't stop thinking about what went on. My boyfriend swears that nothing is going on and that he is just friends with these girls and that he is not the type of person to cheat. I want to believe him and I know I do, I just think that I am a bit insecure when it comes to these things. Now that it's a few weeks later I feel a bit better about the whole situation and had a lot of thinking to do.. but still have a gut feeling. Could I be over reacting to this whole situation? Is it my jealousy and insecurity taking over? Please help =\ Link to post Share on other sites
hurt4life Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 I wish you luck in your decision. I will say that your gut intincts are often right. I am finding out mine were right. I think when confronted with situations like this, reacting with anger is a true sign of lying. Link to post Share on other sites
Bleeve Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 yeah, gut feelings are usually correct. I hope yours isn't, but at the same time the fact that you had plans and he broke them to hang with these other 2 girls is wrong and would cause anyone to wonder what is up. Link to post Share on other sites
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