Buttapecan Posted May 4, 2000 Share Posted May 4, 2000 I just have a small problem that I would really like some male and female input on. I've been with this guy for 5 years, we have two kids together and things were good for a long time but last year we seperated. For the majority of the year I kept to myself not getting involved with anyone hoping that he would come back home, after about 8 months of him being home I started seeing someone in another state. I really started to like this guy, we talked alot on the phone, and visited back and forth, after 4-5 months we had sex. Things then seemed to slow down a bit but we were still very interested in eachother, but then the man I was dying to come back to me decided he was ready to make things better, so I kept my distance from my new flame and decided to try and make things better. I didn't want to tell my old boyfriend that I had slept with this other guy because basically we weren't really together at the time and I didn't want to ruin what we were trying to work on but now he knows what happened and he said he forgives me for not telling him in the beginning. Now my problem is how do I grow to trust him when in the back of my head Im thinking will he go sleep with someone just to get even? Please help me.... Link to post Share on other sites
hassan Posted May 4, 2000 Share Posted May 4, 2000 OK you have known this guy for 5 years. And he forgives you that easily it doesnt matter. He is not gonna sleep with another girl just to even it out with you. Would you do that if you were in his position? Revenge does not solve anything in life. You should just talk it out with him. And tell him how it feels. It is gonna be real hard for you to tell him your true feelings because you are gonna be afraid of what he is gonna do or say? I say that you should just trust him and dont suspect anything unless he starts to act differently around other girls then you. You should know what he would do cuz you have known this guy for 5 years and that period of time you guys had kids. So i say stick with him, but hopefully He wont go sleep with another girl tell me what happens <e-mail address removed> I just have a small problem that I would really like some male and female input on. I've been with this guy for 5 years, we have two kids together and things were good for a long time but last year we seperated. For the majority of the year I kept to myself not getting involved with anyone hoping that he would come back home, after about 8 months of him being home I started seeing someone in another state. I really started to like this guy, we talked alot on the phone, and visited back and forth, after 4-5 months we had sex. Things then seemed to slow down a bit but we were still very interested in eachother, but then the man I was dying to come back to me decided he was ready to make things better, so I kept my distance from my new flame and decided to try and make things better. I didn't want to tell my old boyfriend that I had slept with this other guy because basically we weren't really together at the time and I didn't want to ruin what we were trying to work on but now he knows what happened and he said he forgives me for not telling him in the beginning. Now my problem is how do I grow to trust him when in the back of my head Im thinking will he go sleep with someone just to get even? Please help me.... Link to post Share on other sites
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