coco24 Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 I have a problem. I have a boyfriend and his best friend got married in 2006. I have 3 children with this man. We are set to get married. My boyfriend's new wife-upon them getting married got another girl (her best friend to be bridesmaid) I did not know these girls. All I know is I was not invited to the city hall and not to be part of the wedding. I would think they they have respect to ask me to be part of the wedding. On wedding day I found myself walking across the street in high heel shoes (on a hot day)to find out my fiance drove the bridesmaid in the passenger seat (where i should have been)with the bride and groom in the back seat of a van. Now amist other details--last year, there was thanksgiving and my boyfrined took careful time to fold a napkin for this lady(the wife), and one time in the summer they were staring at eachother. I got the guts to askmy fiance about these instances...wiht not a lot of success. Now my fiance's brother has moved to the basement. She does not even know him. Me trying to bond with the girl after 2 years at the end of our friendly gathering at the mall, she tells me I should bring my boyfriends brother with me to her house? What???? She is married. Yesterday was even worse---after I told her as a response, she should come over here, she made an excuse that I should bring him when the kids are in school--(why would i want to bring my boyfriends brother to her house!) Well last night she and her husband were in the basement and they did not invite us and when we left and came back it was her and the brother in the apartment and she was really paying attention to him--even when her husband was there. At one point she was saying my boyfriends brother can teach me the language and I told her--no my boyfriend can. Also she went up to wash the dishes and she made a point to leave her husband and stand and talk to (my bfs)brother, ignoring her husband--he was on the couch alone....i am not sure but i think this girl is hot in the pants and she already attempted to get close to my bf--i am not feeling comfortable about this girl...what do you think--any advice?should I ask her what her intentions were about my wedding and about my fiance and brother in law(she has her own brother in laws to flirt with)..... Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 Coco24, some paragraphs and breaks would make your post much easier to read and respond to. Whose basement does your fiancee's brother live in? If it's your house, it's your absolute right to control who comes and goes. Otherwise, and if your BIL is over 21, I'd let him set his own boundaries and solve his own problems... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
Heroic Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 She is either a cheater or a hotwife.... Link to post Share on other sites
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